why did i listen 2 him when all hes caused is pain? then we broke up and he said he needed time to himself to sort his head out and now hes got with his best mate who he spent ages telling me meant nothing more that a m8 2 him. but it still hurts, and after a number of drunken kisses in clubs with guys i feel like i will never be worth more than that to anyone again? advice?
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2007-01-03 08:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by MaH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first you need not to worry about what a jack *** says or does to do it's in the past. You need to regroup your emotions and start over again. And try to get together with guys who are nice to you. And if you need to go to clubs just look for the nice guys not the one's who on;y want to take you home for a quick roll and then never want to see youa gain. You need to move on and start from scratch amd make a new relationship and forget all that you went thru with him. SO believe in yourself. And if you need to chat feel free to IM me anytime
2007-01-03 08:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't put your self worth in what men think. Men only really respect women who respect themselves. Of course it hurts when someone doesn't love you. You wonder what you did wrong? Probably nothing. The guy just wanted what he wanted.
You need to like you before anyone else will see you as worth while too. Spend sometime with yourself and learn to be a person you would want to be around. There is nothing worse then relying on other people to make you feel good about yourself. And making out with guys at clubs doesn't help. It means that some drunk guy thought you were easy to make out with. It doesn't mean that he cares about you. Guys actually like the girls who won't makeout with them.
2007-01-03 16:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent two wonderful months with a guy who i thought loved me. Now he doesnt keep in touch or call anymore and said he's having 'family problems'. The silence hurts the most. I am trying to move on but he's on my mind all the time. Hope you feel better soon x
2007-01-03 16:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time...lots and lots of time, before you can find yourself again. When you make someone your whole world, then they leave it is extremely hard to know who you were BEFORE the relationship. Now.. STOP looking for a new guy. When you stop looking he will come. Words of wisdom.... Never make someone your whole life, because when they're gone, you have nothing. ANd believe me we have all made that mistake!
2007-01-03 16:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jacquline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never met a woman who went out, got drunk, acted like a slut, and then felt good about herself.
Guys feed of off chicks like you. You're an easy target. Sober up, get over the dude, and act like a lady.
2007-01-03 16:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull yourself together. you are worth a whole lot more than the value people put on you. You will find that special someone. His actions just let you know that he's not the one.
2007-01-03 16:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay off the booze and learn how to use capital letters.
2007-01-03 16:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by David M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your just going to half to learn on how to get over him and just have fun meeting new ppl and mr. right will find you. you won't find him that is the way i found my man or i should say he found me on a blind date
2007-01-03 16:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lara M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋