Can someone help me? A month ago I was on the verg of dating this guy at work, so we went out one night the problem is that, I been dating somone out of town and he fount out about it, he forgave me and started to treat me better, i had an option either stay or go out with the guy out of town,I chose the hearthrobe outy of town. but i still continued to secretly keep in touch with the guy at work, and he took me out on a date, wasn't much, but when he walked me to my door i let him in he stayed and chilled with me for a second and then when he was ready to go we hugged and then we kissed, but it went no further, i don't see the other guy, anymore, and the guy i been dating is going to move in with me in about a month, and since i lost my car and cant come and see him everyother day. i don't know what he 's doin behind my back, and he lost his place and he needs somwhere to stay, I am so tired of his bullshit i want out (sort of) should i tell him? im gonna let him stay with me
2007-01-03 08:13:57 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a super confusing situation. Hope you have learned that just dating one guy at a time is a heck of a lot easier then trying to juggle more than one. Good luck with that sister
2007-01-03 08:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Try not to be offended, but you are about as ready to move in with someone as......in other words, you are far far from mature enough for that. Also, do you have self-esteem issues? Obviously so. Otherwise you would think more of yourself and wait to get married. You know the saying about getting the milk for free. WAKE UP!
2007-01-03 16:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out w. whom you want but have your wits about you and like they told us: keep your eyes open and your dress down. Works every time. You don't owe tom, dick, and harry your precious body. Let a man EARN your goodies; they are the hunters. Let them be who they are supposed to be. things would be much different. Besides, you are ten times stronger then they are (inside) and can hold out way longer than they can; believe it. They like challenge, struggle, etc., it makes them who they are. They like making the moves; it is their job and right. You confuse the roles -believe it or not- when you come on to them plus put yourself in a position to be disrespected: I didn;t ask you, you brought it to me! Like being regarded like that? Easy come; easy go.
2007-01-03 16:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by qbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your single life.
Don't allow your boyfriend to move in with you.
Plus, any man that can't take care of himself (financially) can't take care of you.
2007-01-03 16:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. You did to him so I don't see a problem.
2007-01-03 16:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your are sick of it and you guys are over. you shouldnt even let him stay with you
2007-01-03 16:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by identityquiet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump both losers, and sort out your life.
2007-01-03 16:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you fell. if not it could become fisicall
2007-01-03 16:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by bonbon19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes let him stay .You big dummy! how can you cheat on your heartthrob???????????
2007-01-03 16:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by don t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋