there is a probelm that he don't love me and he love another girl...what can i do help me plz
2007-01-03 08:10:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry. sounds like you need closure. bite the bullet and tell him you love him so you can find out for sure where you stand. If he says that he doesn't love you anymore then at least you can start the healing process. it sucks,but that is life on life's term sometimes. good Luck
2007-01-03 08:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the old saying....... a closed mouth never gets fed. In other words how would he know that you still love him if you don't tell him and you may be surprised at what he says he may still be in love with you also. Sweetie what I'm trying to say is that the "Silent Treatment" doesn't work you gotta find out where he stands on this issue if for no other reason but to give yourself some closure so that you can move on to bigger and better things. Good Luck!
2007-01-03 08:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Realone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really doesn't love you, you have to let this go. Even if you got him back, it's not fair to you to be with someone who'll never care for you like they should and it's not fair to him to be in a loveless relationship. So you need to go out with your friends as much as possible (as long as they are not mutual friends) and see a bunch of new people. If you make a conscious effort to make new friends and meet new people, you'll get over him faster and maybe even pick up someone who's more worthy of your affection.
Good luck.
2007-01-03 08:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't help you honey. The plain fact is you can not make someone fall in love with you. He has moved on and so should you. Open yourself up to new possibilities and probably you will find someone else to make you happy instead of pinning away for the forbidden fruit.
2007-01-03 08:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy. just go up to him and tell him tht even after u guys broke, u love him. u want to get back together, and tell him for all the mean thngs tht u did to him (u have to really mean wht ur saying). if he can find a place in his heart for u ur all his. good luck!
2007-01-03 08:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Little*Miss*Perfet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love takes two..you're the only one who wants this to work..hes already giving his heart and his love to someone else.. i know its hard but you have to let him go...Just because you love him doesnt make your relationship with him work... its kind of sad that you're still holding on to him..he's already moved on.. it'll hurt for a bit but you will get through...its not worth your pain because he doesnt love you..
2007-01-03 08:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by jinjer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you nailed the problem....it's YOU...you lack the confidence.
You need to work on YOU first...
You need to find Who you really are and build confidence in who you are.... you do not settle for someone who loves someone else..and someone does not love you because you tell them you love them...
I can help you thru the steps... email me @ heart_soul_mind2004@yahoo.com
or message me on yahoo messenger @ heart_soul_mind2003
2007-01-03 08:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let go and if he comes back then maybe you're meant for each other.don't dwell to much for this.let time determine what you have to do
2007-01-03 08:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should backk of and not cause tension with your ex bf and his girl. :]
move on. there's a reason why you two broke up
2007-01-03 08:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u realy love him then get tha guts to tell him
2007-01-03 08:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by poesycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋