2007-01-03 08:07:56 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is, unless it's a threesome :) :) :)
2007-01-03 08:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of all the people who said 'yes' right away, how many movies have you seen where someone cheats but you don't think it was a bad idea because they were suppose to be together in the end.
My point is, the situation has to be explained. Is it just messing around for fun or can it get serious? Is he just looking for some action on the side? if so then defintily it is wrong.
2007-01-03 08:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by efil_4_msdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is really wrong inless you know his gf. I am in almost the same boat as you but my best friend is doing stuff with my bf. If the girl finds out she will be really hurt and could try to start stuff with you. The question is do you want to take the risk of doing stuff with this guy? If I was in your position then I would talk to the guy and see what he wants from you and if he wants a relatetionship. If he doesn't then it isn't worth your time. Trust me I am going though it and my firend is mad that she even got involved with him. So now it is up to you!
2007-01-03 08:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by BSUgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally yes. I don't have details so I am going to give you a few scenarios and hopefully one of them is yours. I don't know how far you two went so it is hard to say. Flirting with a guy who has a girl friend is OK, most people do it. If you didn't know and he led you on than it was his fault, not yours. If you knew and a lot went on then yes.
Another way to think about it: How would you feel if your guy was "messing with" him? Not good, it should have been her. Good Luck.
2007-01-03 08:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-03 08:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes What if you were in her shoes, what would you do or want to do. You are more wrong because you know he has a girlfriend he is wrong because he has a girl so break it off by reminding him of that, because if hje dumps her for you, i can promise he will dump you for someone too
2007-01-03 08:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea. I would say so. If he's not going after you, dont go after him. Because if you come on to him and you guys get caught, the blame will be partially on him for paying attention to you, but mainly on you for starting everything. Also, put yourself in her shoes...would you like a girl to be messing with your bf??
2007-01-03 08:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it really is just think that if you had a bf would you want another woman messing with your man. Think about how you would feel.
2007-01-03 08:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - just think how u would feel if you found out your bf was messing with another girl
2007-01-03 08:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by baby_savvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Yes
Long answer: You are an insecure person who will not commit to being herself. She would rather make two other people unhappy than go after someone who is available.
Long term consequence: People will avoid you as a flirt who stirs up trouble. People of BOTH genders. It's your choice.
2007-01-03 08:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! it's completely wrong! first of all you need to respect yourself and get someone who is all yours because you deserve that. second of all how would you feel if some girl was messing with your boyfriend? it's just wrong.
2007-01-03 08:11:26 · answer #11 · answered by identityquiet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋