my parents are isolating me from the man of my dreams who i love who i want to marry! im in so much pain!
2007-01-03 08:05:45 · 23 answers · asked by Babydoll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to answer some of your questions im 16 and a senior in high school.
2007-01-03 08:10:15 · update #1
Perhaps you need to give your parents the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he would have been bad for you? In any event, take a step back and look at live with some perspective. Also, look seriously at the reasons your parents are giving you for why they thing he'd be bad for you.
2007-01-03 08:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ivar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too, am going through pain currently from a relationship so I can relate to that part. As for your parents playing protectors, that is nothing new. They are trying to shield you from what they feel will be far worse than the pain you're experiencing now. But, you have to inform them that you must experience life first hand for yourself. You have to let them know that they can't prevent you from making mistakes, that is how you will learn from them and grow. I don't know how old you are and think that is an irrelevant fact, but, if you are under their roof, then you must abide by their rules. After all, they are your folks. But, nothing will keep you from making your own choices, your parents know this. That is why the heightened security is into play. They are trying to hold onto the "little girl" that has grown up. Hold on to your feelings if the guy is worth it. Destiny will prevail. Promise. Be strong.
2007-01-03 08:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is, your parents think they are doing the right thing. depending on your age they are probably right. Odds are your boyfriend might not be there as long as your parents. How well do you even know this guy? I wouldn`t recomend you marry the first guy you ever fall in love with. Realise that your parents love you very much maybe even more than your boyfriend thinks he does. Blood is thicker than water. However, if your over 18 go with your heart. Just try not to upset your parents too much in the process.
2007-01-03 08:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry.
Time is the only thing that can cure a broken heart. But you can distract yourself with things like hobbies and excercise. Turn it into a positive!
I used the gym as an escape to get over my ex who cheated on me.
2007-01-03 08:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby doll time is on your side If your parents are standing in your way then I'm presuming that you are a Young lady and that your parents are objecting not so much because of the guy but your age keep contact with him and in a year or two your folks will realize that its not a teen crush but something real and strong
BE PATIENT I KNOW ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANTED TO HEAR .
2007-01-03 08:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww. That's the worst!
I know it hurts now, and, honestly, it will for a really long time. But it will go away eventually. And, if he is the one for you, you will end up eventually. Trust me. That's how love works.
Don't worry. Just focus on the things that matter most right now, besides your guy. Focus on your friends. Talk to them, they'll help you through it. <3 Feel better, hun.
2007-01-03 08:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to your parents about why they don't want you to marry him and if it's something small like they don't like the rest of his family then I'd say marry him. If you really love him like that then you should even though your parents may not agree.
2007-01-03 08:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by shortie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are probably protecting you. You might not like it but soon you'll understand show them youre mature and talk to them and ask them why, if that doesn't help, if the bond of love is strong enough between the both of you He'll wait and I know you will
2007-01-03 08:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm sure they have their reasons. Maybe your too young or they think he's not right for you. You may want to listen to your parents. I know it's not what you want to hear right now but they have your best interests in mind. Keep your mind occupied, pursue other things. There will be time enough for marriage later.
2007-01-03 08:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh dear I am sorry ..but I want to assure you that your parents want the best for you always ,maybe this guy is not the right one for you and they don't want you to be in trouble later facing real and serious problems by marrying him....time will heal your pain I promise.
2007-01-03 08:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋