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Question

ok before saying anything i want all the jokers to just press the back botton and answer other question cause am talking seriosly.

there is this problem i have i some times or lets say most of the time like to lie to make thing go cooler.before i started to lie or to show of was just a stuped and invisible girl like an empty pepsi jar that people step on . it started when i was 13 and all the girls in the class made fun of me. i was realy fed up guys did want to come out with me but because people made fun f me they were shy or whatever u call it. i started lieing and al that stuff and guys just came out with me and i started liking it but whenever i lied i feltg giulty this wnt on for this 3 years and i cant stand it so i shared it with everyone in the world do you think this is a wiered thing? please help to make me feel better i even lied to my friends!!! is it wiered? sorry butthere are many mistakes

Answer 1

You cannot live your whole life in lies... One lie brings another and so on and some day you will find yourself so confused, that even you won't be able to know what is true and what isn't! Stop this right now and enjoy a real, happy true life!

Answer 2

Lying has a price. That price is that eventually, no one will ever believe you.

What kind of friendship can you have with a person you cannot even believe?

Answer: A very shallow one.

As a guy, I'll tell you this: If I catch a woman in a lie, I may warn her once. After that, she's road trash. Being lied to... that's the ultimate insult. It tells me that you don't think I'm important enough to be honest with me. It also says you think I'm fool enough to believe you... and that you want to make me look stupid.

Lie to me?

Get lost girl.

And get this straight: Who cares what the "crowd" thinks? If you are yourself and talk straight to a guy, he'll either like you or not - but at least it's you he's deciding on. If you lie, you'll never know what he thinks of YOU because you just made it impossible to know you - except, eventually, as a liar.

Now there is a certain kind of guy who is attracted to a lying woman. He's a player. He knows you're lying because you feel insecure. So he'll play to that insecurity. He'll sucker you in and use you - then kick you to the curb when he's done. And why shouldn't he? He didn't take advantage of a nice girl. He just out-lied a liar.

If that's what you want - keep on lying. Lots of women do. And lots of men recognize those women for what they are.

Answer 3

You lied to get people to feel a certain way about you. you feel guilty because A) you're a good person and B) because lying really didn't make you happy. Subconsciously you knew they hung out with you for the wrong reason. There are some basic needs; food, shelter,cloths, but after that people being social creatures want acceptance into a group. There are few things better then know people wanting to be around you because of you. Thats why lying only made you feel good for a little bit.

Answer 4

lying is a vicious circle you have to remember what lye you told to which person. I feel that telling the truth is much more interesting. there are times that i have to bit my tong and not say anything at all. But telling the truth all the time will not win you many friends. The truth is that we all lie to each other every day. people justify it by saying their just little whit lies but they can become bigger lies. the fact that you feel bad when you lie means that you know what you are doing is wrong so stop telling the lies as for telling everyone that you have been lying I have a feeling that most of them already know.

Answer 5

Lying is a very bad habit that can ruin friendships and relationships - stop now! It probably started as a phase that we all go through as adolescence, but you've crossed the line since you've been doing it for 3 years. Do this simple thing - PAUSE before you answer any questions - think about what you are about to say - if it's not 100% truth, DON'T SAY IT! Before you know it, you will have broken the habit and will be on the road to sanity once again. I wish you well - God bless!

Answer 6

hun its ok, sometimespeople do things to get liked
your only human, and we all makes mistakes
you need to realize that you are you and masks are easily created through hurt, we all build walls to defend ourselfs and to shut the real us out. so in order to do that we lie, about us and reality.
in the end we beleive our own lies and thar becomes our mask, our security blanket.
you know its wrong, we all do and now it becomes a burdon.
to find your own peace of mind you must come clean, you may lose friends along the way but the ones who will stay true and forgive you, are the friends you must be true to and be honest with hun
you need some solid ground and once you find some solace, you will be happy.
please do this it will make a huge difference, and you do have a good heart ok, dont ever question that

god bless

Answer 7

Don't worry, it isn't weird. There are a lot of people who lie to get around problems or to make themselves seem to be better than who they really are. It's a good thing that you decided to tell the truth, and even though there are a lot of mistakes, just keep telling the truth and everything will sort itself out. Chances are you will feel guilty for awhile, but do your best not to make any more mistakes and it will go away.

Don't worry. It will work out.

Answer 8

Hello,

I assume you are 16 years old...I'm 18 and once i had this problem also...howeverwith the time i stopped using it. You should know that leing about something will not make you cooler in fron of your friends and more like by the boys....Or even if it does if they find out about it that wouldb be a penalty for you...And believe me leing too often ...no mattter about what is noticable and you willl lose people's trust. Try to stop it and you will feel much better.

Answer 9

Yes, truly there are many mistakes. Spell check button is on the top right of your answer box. It makes questions a lot easier to read if you use it. Okay, the operative words in your literally-challenged missive is "came out with me" and "I started liking it" and "guilty." Apparently, in a backlash against the guilt, you spilled the beans.

My advice? Lose the guilt. Don't care what people say, be yourself. Suffer ignorance and smile.

Answer 10

Lying in the end will always come back to haunt you. Starting telling the truth from now on. This is a big world. Some girls and guys will like you as you are.