ok my bf cheated on me. and i kinda miss him but i dont at the same time because, of course he cheated on me! but he moved away. he has been mean to me latly like saying the b word and stuff. what should i do?
2007-01-03 07:55:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what i dont get that
he shouldnt be mad at you hes the one that cheated, i believe it should be the other way around, dont you think
you shouldent even worry, tell him flat out
you have no right to be peeved off with me, your the one who got your d**k wet in the first place. you cheated, not me grow up boy and keep it in your pants coz no ladys gonna put up you next time round
now i have my life to life im movin on and i dont need no jerk making me feel bad for his own mistake
see ya
and thats that stick up for yourself hun there are to many aholes in this world, and you dont need one of them making you feel like s*** for his own f***up you got me, if he moved then you should move to, move on
i dont mean to sound a ;ittle ignorant it just gets me mad i cant stand cheaters, they are not worth the air im about to breathe
2007-01-03 08:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alex leave him alone and get on with your life. Nobody and I must repeat Nobody has the right to hurt another person's feelings by name calling etc. If he has cheated on you then put that relationship to rest or it will only happen again. Go out into this big world and find someone who will treat you with respect and be honest and open with you. It may be wise to wait a little while before becoming to involved in another relationship as you are still grieving the loss of this one. But once your heart has healed go out and show the world that you are a strong and confident young lady and someone will be there awaiting you. It feels sad that our heart gets broken but it always heals. Your heart, like mine and just about everyones alive, will be broken many times before you find Mr. Right and you will also be responsible for breaking hearts along the line. But the heart is an organ that is capable of mending itself and yours will also. Best of luck and all the best in 2007.
2007-01-03 08:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me. I know how you feel about wanting him back. I get that same feeling most of the time. But if he cheated on you and called you names that you don't like being called...I'm sorry to break it to ya' but he didnt love you. Then whole boyfriend girlfriend thing has really changed. Awhile a go people would NEVER cheat on anyone because they wouldnt have married/dated them in the first place
2007-01-03 08:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by monkey_ipod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you it means he doesn't respect you. If youw ere to get back together he will most likely cheat on you again in the future. If he is calling you names he really doesn't respect you.
You should find a new boyfriends or some friends to hangout with and do stuff with and forget about him. There are plenty of men out there who would never cheat on you.
2007-01-03 08:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by CM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him see if he stops sayig those things to you cause if you ignore him then he wont think its getting to you asl him why he is being like that cause i know what you are going through cause im in the same situation right now and ya it does bother you he is not there but he has never called me those things hes just being rude and mean to me so your not the only one girl hes not worth it if he acts like that cause its showing his true colors of who he is he is not faithful to you so dont run after him ok move on there is other fish in the sea for you you never know if your true love is there you have to be free and start to look for someone else ok dont be sad be glad he is not with you and still cheating on you like he did before you deserve better than that you dont need some one like that in your life
2007-01-03 08:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're not together with him anymore because you said "I miss him," but are you at least still friends? You should not even be thinking about getting back together with him yet if you're not even friends. And If he has been "mean" to you, why would you even want to get back together with him? Seriously, you asked yahoo answers these questions, but ask these to yourself. Do you like it when he calls you a *****? Why do you, and most other girls, like assholes like him (and yes, anyone who would call you a ***** without good reason to, especially since hes the one who cheated on you, is an asshole). My suggestion to you, is to aat least temporarily forget about him and find a NICE guy.
2007-01-03 08:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you all don't have children together and if there is no need for you and him to talk, tell him to kick rocks. How can he call you out your name or be mean to you, when he is the one that's wrong. How could you miss him, when he treats you like this. Please believe you can find someone who will treat you the way you need to be treated and if not maybe it's time for you to have "Me Time", where you get to know and love yourself. Then maybe the right man will find you!
2007-01-03 08:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by mschocliq25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, as hard as it may be. I'm in the same situation, well, I ended a relationship with someone I care(d) about very deeply, because he was dishonest about some things...and it's hard to move on, but you have too sweetie. If it wasn't meant for you guys to be together, then there is nothing you can do to change it. Keep yourself busy, and please don't let him treat you like that, you deserve better!
Good luck
2007-01-03 08:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let it go I know its hard but just let it go. I cheated on my bf too and I use to miss him but now I really don't care and I moved on.
2007-01-03 07:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should stop stalking him. If he's "cheating" and being mean to you then you guys aren't an item. Take the hint.
2007-01-03 08:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋