there's this guy i like and recently i told a mutual guy mate that i do. then couple days later he came and told me that he asked the guy i like, if he likes me. he apparently denied at first and sed i wudnt ask her out but sed if i ask him out then he might. when our mutual mate sed so u like her then, he sed a little. so my question is, is this guy interested in me? if yes, then y does it have to be me asking him out instead of the other way?? could somebody explain this to me and tell me what my move should be in all of this. thankyou
2007-01-03 07:43:28 · 19 answers · asked by Shaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do nothing, Now that he know's your interested ball is in his court
2007-01-03 07:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, equality girl. why the fuc!< should it be us to make the first move anymore? Wouldn't that in someway be suggesting you couldn't do it yourself?
did you expect the end result of feminism would enable to have it both ways?
Maybe he's just shy.
Sorry dudet, I'm not attacking you personally just the whole "moved the goal posts too far" for your own good brigade.
Go get him girl what you waiting for? maybe the guy thinks your friend is just winding him up an he's unsure.
If you want it you have to go about getting it.
2007-01-03 15:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably does like you too shy to admit it fully to ur guy friend. Maybe you should ask him out chances are he'll say yes. He has admitted he likes you so go for it.
Good Luck
2007-01-03 18:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if he likes u but he might not beleive the mutual gut so he probibly dosent want to embaris himself if the mutual guy wasnt right thats y he wants u to make the move
2007-01-03 15:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by jthaney92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to play it cool. You did afterall start the topic with your mutual friend, so why not be the first to act on it?
2007-01-03 15:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! Lost me after about the third line. Have you read "The Da Vinci Code"? I think the answer to your question is probably buried somewhere in those pages
2007-01-03 15:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Trust me, if he really likes you he will have the courage to ask you out. Don't set yourself up for rejection. He knows that you like him, so let us see what he does with that info.
2007-01-03 15:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys would rather have a girl ask them out, because then they don't have to risk "rejection" (The big R word in guy's vocabulary!!)
So ask him out!!
2007-01-03 15:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and ask him out to the movies.people do it all the time it just doesn't have to be the guy anymore.
2007-01-03 15:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out.. he apparently wants you too. Give it a try, there's no harm in it. It could be that he is just shy. Good luck!!
2007-01-03 15:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by christypooh87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋