ok, well i met this girl at work and now that her current boytoy hasnt seen her in like 2 months.. she is spending alot of time with me.. he yelled at her on the phone the other day becuase she keeps asking him when he is goign to see her.. she told me last night she is trying to make him mad so he ends it.. and i was like well if you like me like you say you do why dont you just end it and be with me.. she says "youare with me" you are my boyfriend, atleast i been doing the things a boyfirend should do. I was like how am i your boyfriend when you still have him, butshe said well do you see him here, i guess shes right, i been spending like almost everyday with her, and we been doing what normal boyfriend and girlfriends do.. we even had sex now like 8 times.. best sex ever! I dont know what to do.. i guess all i can do is wait i guess but i would like some feedback from someone. please tell me what ishould do.
2007-01-03 07:26:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would go with your gut my friend why can't she break up with the jerk and be with you sounds like someone is being used !
2007-01-03 07:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um she is cheating on her loser boyfriend with you. I don't care how big of a jerk he is or that she is WITH you a lot, so she likes you and you like her..it's CHEATING. Watch out for this girl, she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Be careful, a new guy may come along in a few months...and you won't be the other guy anymore. You'll be the "cheated on" guy. She is a player-ette.
2007-01-03 15:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this isn't too different to my situation, me being the girl from work. except i'm not that close to the guy from work, we sort of do stuff when drunk, and my bf (well i left him new years eve) was always around i was always trying to get space from him. i left him though because i don't want this guy from work to think i'm messing him about and anyway i didn't want to be with the bf.
if you don't like this ask her to prove that she's serious about you by getting rid of him - this isn't fair on you but she's doing it cuz you let her.
2007-01-03 15:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like to me she's just sexin you to get some type of revenge form the other man.
2007-01-03 15:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's only with him in title. As long as she's not pounding him too, you're in the clear. Let things happen.
2007-01-03 15:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by YummyRemmy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she still calls him her boyfriend and shes sleeping with you she doesnt sound very trustworthy
2007-01-03 15:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by stressfreennc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋