i havent been able to ever get a gf n im 16. everytime i get a little closer. most girls say im a good guy, n i guess im sensitive, but still, i can never get the girl i want. there r guys extremely uglier than me that get chosen over me, guys that are the type of person everyone hates and wishes that person would go away. ive lost out to guys with almost the same personality as me except theyre fat or something, n im in good shape n most girls think im attractive but for some reason i cant get the type of girl that like sensitive guys or w/e. it just never seems to work out, and it usually ends up in an argument n i prefer not to b friends with the girl i like. its a new year, i want to change. plz help. n ive also only kissed one girl so u understand my rush.
2007-01-03 07:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really shouldn't be in a rush. I was 16/17 when I had my first bf and it just came out of nowhere. I mean if you keep thinking about it and letting it get to you, somehow it shows in your personality and people can sense/see it. Just be young and have fun like go out and hang with your friends and someday the right person will come to you. You don't need to change yourself for anyone, unless you think there is really something about you that you need to change.
2007-01-03 07:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me, but it's nice to be informed of how and why past relationships went down the drain so you get an idea of this person's behavior and know what to expect. You don't have a choice but to accept their history because you weren't committed to them at the time. I wouldn't suggest forgetting about it though, but just don't take it so seriously and constantly bring it up. Nobody likes to be reminded of their past failures. All you can do is move forward and become a better person; if you agreed to go steady, then you're pretty much giving them that chance.
2016-05-22 23:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. Sensitive young men don't get laid.
That doesn't happen until later, when girls that you are interested in have been hurt by those other tough guys and are ready to take a chance with a different breed.
This usually takes about 10 to 15 years worth of dating stupid tough, insensitive men that have no clue and no chance of getting a clue in the near future.
Hang in there dear, the good guy will prevail.
2007-01-03 07:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by an_awsome_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's you're problem. You're in a rush and girls see that as a sign of desperation. The absolute best thing you can do for yourself is pretend that you don't care and act as though you are happy and satisfied as a single young man. After a while, girls will misinterpret this satisfaction with yourself as being confident...and girls dig confidence. (Just don't get carried away and start acting arrogant).
2007-01-03 07:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY STILL BE YOURSELF (ALWAYS)....but maybe add a little spice...girls love the bad boy..so do not become a bad boy...but just add a few flashes of bad boy...a leather jacket...a new haircut.....a little bit of a sneer on occasion (girls love to give BJs to guys with a sneer).....you will find some hot girls this way..be a little more aloof
2007-01-03 07:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I understand what you are going through. Its the Pop culture we are in at the moment.
Most women want men who are either "bad boys" or very rough to look at.
Most men want women who are act like "porn stars" or who act really nice on front of people but like a hooker when they are alone.
I'm going through the same thing. My advice is to look at what attractive to you in a woman (well, girl in your case). Start looking at girls that are outside of your attraction factor.
2007-01-03 07:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry their is somebody for everybody, you'll fine your princess , just think of it like this those girls that say your a good guy is missing out on a good man.
2007-01-03 07:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls might just think that your intimidating and dont think they have a chance with a guy like you! Be more out going...
Good Luck!
2007-01-03 07:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to start being friends with the girl. So she can get to know you. Then see if you are truly interested in her and if she is truly interested in you.
2007-01-03 07:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do get u cuz i like guys that r like u. in just reading ur question i think ur the type of guy i've been lookin for. so if like what my answer is plz get back 2 me.
2007-01-03 07:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by alisha b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋