I'm so upset right now I never thought I would let another guy get me like this! Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating a month now, he tells me ha loves me and I really like him alot, but today I went home sick in the morning. He thinks I might be pregnant and that would totallyu ruin both of our lifes for good. I told him I would take a test and all that but now he seems so distant. He never says I love you when we say goodbye like he used to and he just isn't acting like himself. I am so scared I don't want to lose him because I have never been so happy since I met him! I don't know what to say to him I already asked if he was mad or upset he said no but continued to act the same way. Pleas someone help I don't want to loose him
2007-01-03 07:19:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just give him some space, and take the test. He might just be nervous.
2007-01-03 07:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I'm not sure how old you are but if you old enough to have sex you should be using protection, especially if you have only been together a month. If you are in fact prego he is just probably weirded out with the whole OMG I might be a dad what do I do now. Just talk to him let him know nothing is for sure as of yet. Do take a test and do go see a a Dr if you are Prego. Learn about your options and what to do that is right for you and unborn child and the man in your life. With out communication all is lost so be up front about your feelings but be considerate of his. If you turn out not to be prego go get on some birth control and use condoms and try not to let yourself get in a situation like this one again its really scary.. Good luck to you and I hope all work out.
2007-01-03 15:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just scared..probably not ready to raise a kid..I mean are you? Just take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor and he'll be fine when your results come back negative...but he shouldn't be a jerk about it..seriously.. You want to be w/someone who treats you good..no matter what happens...especially if he says he loves you. Just for future...birthcontrol & condoms.
2007-01-03 15:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by kcgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A whole month and all this is going on, huh? I think you can shot gun him into marriage and get divorced before the baby arrives. That's what I recommend - get your father/mother/brother/cousin/neighbor to force him to marry you, with a shotgun if necessary.
2007-01-03 15:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey he could be worried and afriad to talk about it - it has taken a LONG time for me to get my boyfriend to talk to me - find out the truth of the test ease his mind and decide what is to be done but if he will not stand by the risk the two of you made
(even having it or talking with you for what will be best) is he really worth it?
2007-01-03 15:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk he is acting this way for he thinks you are pregnant if you are not please dump this loser for he is not a nice guy and your too good for him !!
2007-01-03 15:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋