...with guys I've met on the internet, at the present time I've slept with 6 different guys since Christmas. My bloke is really good looking but I'm really not fussy, I'll do anything that walks as I have an over active sexual appetite. I even went out for a brief time on Christmas day to meet one of my lovers for a quickie. My bloke didn't notice as he was busy having a nap after his dinner. I'm starting to worry that he will find out and I’ll lose him he seems to be getting suspicious! I feel really guilty, but I just can't help myself. I really love him, but I’m addicted to meeting guys... What can I do?
2007-01-03 07:10:03 · 41 answers · asked by Jo_Diva 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just drug him before you leave, he`ll be none the wiser, a girls got needs hun!! And if he finds out and dumps you it`ll just show what a selfish pig he is
2007-01-03 07:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Oh my!!!
Try and find information on sex clinics.
Go to the gym;
Do some voluntary work, anything to keep you busy.
Did you ever think about sexual transmitted diseases?
What about if you transmitted something to that poor bloke?
Do you think he'd deserve it?
What about yourself?
Don't you like and value yourself?
Plus why not ask your bloke, he might be up for it and would be happy to oblige.
In the mean time, try and find a therapyst fast.
Good luck.
2007-01-03 07:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell him
i know but you gotta stop seeing the others guys
if you still want to see them you gotta drop your bloke
cause its not fair for him so you gotta drop either the other
you cant have both unless he can have the same too
like a open relationship
he wont like it
but metion it to him
but you gotta know, once you got a open relationship, he is gonna change, he would treat you like the other girls he would be doing or maybe he would treat them better than you.
and if that happens, then you guys are not ment to be in this lifetime.
come on if you love him then you wouldnt done the affair.
its so stupid
how can you love someone and cheat on them and say that you love them
its just so stupid
if you were my girl and i found out
i would just leave you
and say f it
its not worth it, all the time i've been with you and our love, is no love at all, just a piece of ****
so i would totally dump you.
2007-01-03 07:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've just been saying how lazy your boyfriend is and how he asked if he could crap on your chest in your last two questions (within the past hour.) Make your mind up! In another question you asked if you could catch std's from toilet seats. I should worry more about catching them from your activities. Do you not worry that you may give your boyfriend, or other people some kind of nasty disease, never mind yourself. In your profile you claim to be taking a degree in psychology - are you your own case study.
2007-01-03 07:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer is so simple it's staring you in the face:
STOP HAVING AFFAIRS
Part of loving someone is making sacrifices for them. If you love him then stop. Coz he'll find out sooner or later and it's going to hurt - both of you - a lot.
So either you can stop
or carry on and destry both of you
Which do you prefere?
It's up to you in the end
Don't even bother telling yourself he wont find out coz he will.
I really hope you make a wise decision
2007-01-03 07:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Jo... I think I would try counseling if I were you. You seem to be reaching out for something and never finding it. If it's just the sex, you would be using a vibrator. It's something more then the sex. You are looking for Mr. Goodbar(Old movie, go rent it). Really, see a counselor and you will be able to see yourself more clearly. This is a life experience that I can share first hand.
2007-01-03 07:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jo,
You are taking Psychology so you know what your problem is. You scared of committment? Do you think you're boyfriend is too good for you, so you are subconsciously pushing him away? Looking for a father figure? Lacking in confidence and gaining it through quick sex? Need approval of others? Look up Histrionic Personality or Borderline Personality Disorder and see if it reminds you of yourself? If you're ever in Scotland drop me a line and I'll fix you x
2007-01-03 07:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Stewart M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-29 22:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls i use to do the same thing but not as extreme then you
pray because that what i had to do now hear me out
you are weak and it,s like an addiction that what i had to do
and go get yourself tested too, to be safe, do not feel bad
everyone have addiction this your can no one judge you
pray with your heart and ask for forgiveness, because you
can end losing someone who you deeply love i did
take one day a time, because gonna be hard and pray.God bless
2007-01-03 07:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've got a sexy female friend try getting jiggy with her in front of him and that will guarantee to stand him to attention, it might just put some sparkle back into your life.
Or is the problem that he just ain't got it, its no good him being a good looker if he cann't satisfy.
If all else fails there are plenty of battery operated accessories for you, that are designed to please.
Hope this helps.. lol
2007-01-03 09:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by edd the duck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe u. ur worried about breaking up with ur bf by him finding out about u being a little ****, yet u wont stop with meetin other guys. i guess u should just get help or hav only open relationships. what ur doin is nothing to be proud of, and u should feel guilty.
2007-01-03 07:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by Sharon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋