I'm 15 and i have never had a boy friend before.....?

Question

i'm 15 and i have never had a boy friend and it is very hard for me to talk to boys. but when i get to know them i can talk to them but they never stay long enough for me to get to know them.
and every one says i just need to get a boy friend.
can you help please????

Answer 1

Ok, this is gunna sound weird, but actually, when I STOPPED looking is when I found one, just be natural, maybe talk to a few more guys if you're not too shy, it'll work out :-)

Answer 2

You don't NEED a boyfriend. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 17. And no, I'm not ugly, I was quite attractive. My dauthter is beautiful and is the same way. I didn't date much in high school. I didn't marry until I was 32. I didn't need to be paired with someone to feel like I was special. Learn to feel comfortable with yourself, then you will be able to talk to boys. Don't worry about the boyfriend thing. Don't rush or you'll set yourself up for heartache or you'll settle for someone that may not be worthy of you. Enjoy your teen years they only come once, date around when you're ready or go single (I did) I went to Prom alone and I had a great time. Find out who you are first then choose wisely. Always choose your well being first.Happy New Year.

Answer 3

You don't need a boyfriend. A person's happiness should lie within herself, and not be connected to her relationship status. Focus on yourself, your strength, talents, and all that make you a beautiful person. Focus on your future, and your education.

When your life falls into place and you are your fantastic self, you will attract a boyfriend of equal quality to yourself.

Also: you're only 15, don't feel you need to be tied down to some guy, try some casual dating, just for fun and to get to know people. But some day you'll go off to college, and that's where you'll start to meet guys who would make good boyfriends. Right now, they are too young, and trying to figure out who they are, just as you are trying to figure out who you are.

For now, being free and unattached is ideal. Date in college, figure out what kind of guy fits best with you, and then after college, date real men.

Oh, and no matter how much he says he loves you, if he's not a nice to you, and a gentelman, then he's not worth it.

Answer 4

Geez... 15 seemed like so along for me. I agree with one of the writers, consider it a blessing in disguise. You're still young to date, and have many years left. Since you still young focus on your self. Because a positive sense of self esteem only comes from within. Focus on developing some interests and hobbies that you like. I know this sounds weird, but enjoy school to the fullest. If you do these things not only will the transition to adulthood seem much easier but the right guy will come along and learn to appreciate you. You may have heard this before but it's very true; it'll happen when you least expect it. Enjoy your youth, because it only happens once.

Answer 5

You don't have to have a boyfriend. Be comfortable with yourself and Mr. Right might just fall into your lap. If the guys don't stick around long enough for you to get to know them, then they're not worth you're time anyways. One thing though, If you have an male friends who you can get along with really well, and that you like. You could always try getting together with one of them. You'd be surprised how many friends have a secret "desire" to be more than "just friends."

Answer 6

Don't worry about it! You're only 15, you have your ENTIRE life to get boy friends. It's def not the most important thing in the world. Also, teen boys can be jerks, but others can be super sweet, so be careful not to fall for a mean one!
One of my very best friends is a guy, and so it's easy for me to get advice from him and he has a lot of attractive friends...so become really good friends with a guy and everything will fall into place.

Answer 7

That is a blessing in-disguise. Go out for sports, hobbies, clubs, (nice ones) Like after school ones. Get to know yourself better. Then at the right time he will show up. Do not push it you will only get the WRONG kind of bozo. In this your friends advice is not up to date. And far from helpful,

Answer 8

I am 15 too. I understand that you want a boyfriend, but you got years for that. Focus on getting friends that you can hang out with. Boys are easy to talk to when you are not focused on making them your boyfriends. Just be their friend and they might end up liking you for that. Don't stress though.

Answer 9

No one ' Needs' a boyfriend.. take your time, get involved in sports or activities..hell your only 15 you have more then enough time until you have to deal with all the bull that comes with having a boyfriend, besides boys that age are inmmature and want one thing... pffffttt....

Answer 10

Young Lady, Do not worry about males! DO THINGS!
Study a musical instrument, take martial arts, tennis, photography, chess, painting what ever YOU like to do! Ballet, Jazz Ballet, try to go to concerts, plays, ballets.

While doing the things that YOU like to do, you will meet very interesting people doing what you like to do!

And this is for sure, because NATURE made it this way, EVERY male sees EVERY female, and EVERY female sees every male.

You do not have to do any thing extra! If you want to be seen/noticed, go out side your front door! YOU WILL BE SEEN, and every male that passes you by can tell every male that he meets, what you had on! Believe it! I'm a male too, and I have already noticed you!

Answer 11

Well, I'm 16 and do not have a boyfriend and you know what? i dont care!...you have all your life ahead of yourself..enjoy it.
You have to concentrate on YOU for now, learn about yourself, get an education and know exactly what you want out of life. The good things come to those who wait and even though we may not believe that the perfect guy will come along, one day he will and we just have to keep that in mind...