I behaved badly towards my mom when she made me mad and bad things keep happening to me. When I was a teen, pple made fun of me all the time b/c I was flat chested, skinny and looked younger than I was. During junior year, the girls I hung out with ignored me. Most of the girls in school and out didn't like me either.
I had a horrible college experience. No guys asked me out. I met many pple but I never really hung out with anyone. The few friends I had don't call me, stop talking to me or turn against me. I can't count the times I've been ignored, ridiculed, rejected, insulted, and disrespected by others, esp. girls.
My baby's father was my first "boyfriend" but I got pregnant by him shortly after I met him. He's a total jerk & we haven't talked in 2 yrs. I still don't have a man.
Even though I graduated from college in 2005, I can't get a job and I've been on many interviews.
So am I cursed? Do you think I deserve this?
2007-01-03 07:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by wojjgio 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
naaah, i don't think your mom would curse you or something!!! life is hard, every1 have their problems, we just have to be strong.
you are complaining about your life, at least you have food and freedom. what do you say about people living in African desert? or people living in fear and war?
start by choosing some aims in your life, like i will do that in the next 3 months, then after it ..... and so on.
every1 has been ignored and ridiculed in a way in their life.
at least be happy that you have your health, what do you think blind people or people with cancer do? it's hard for them too. be happy for what you have and who you are.
2007-01-03 07:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dirty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a curse, no one is punishing you and it's not a question of 'deserving' it. You've come from some pretty tough circumstances, and that's admirable. But I wonder if you've got some other problem that is holding you back from seeing and feeling real success.
A therapist might be able to help you by providing some perspective. You might be sabotaging your own efforts without knowing it, you might have a fear of success since you have never experienced it. You may be oversensitive to some behaviors that cause you to withdraw, feel angry, or sabotage your relationships.
Think about how your life is now and picture how you'd like your life to be. Then look at what smaller steps you can take to head in that direction. You have the ability to create the life you want, although because of the abuse you suffered you may have trouble seeing what's really holding you back. This is common in abused children. You may need some help to overcome it, but it is definitely surmountable.
Wishing you the best of luck and happiness.
2007-01-03 07:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, the respond is complicated. yet one obtainable reason is that the courts discourage mom and dad from disciplining youngsters. If mom and dad spank, they get grew to become in to social amenities (CPS) through instructors or busy-physique friends. teen-agers who're offended at their mom and dad' regulations turn their own mom and dad in to CPS. Then the mum and dad get a bypass to from CPS, the courts order the little ones into foster care, and the mum and dad ought to shell out huge greenbacks for secure practices legal experts, infant help, parenting instructions, and so on. the end result's that some mom and dad are afraid to discipline. additionally, there are greater families the place the two mom and dad artwork, and neither has lots time or potential for the little ones. There are greater broken and re-blended families, which has a tendency to make youngsters experience offended and insecure. there are in all probability different motives, yet i think of those are most of the huge ones.
2016-11-26 01:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..I don't believe in curses...especially from God
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The Ten commandments say honor your parents....but that also has an implied meaning that they should respect you.
I suspect that there are other reasons for your social difficulties.
Maybe you should seriously turn inward and look at yourself.
You can fix anything that you find. It maybe difficult but you can do it..I know you can.
Another thought occurs to me...maybe your parents didn't do their job and teach you social skills and values as they should have. It may be their fault but not God's fault.
Whatever the reasons you can change the things about you that may be causing your unhappiness.
2007-01-03 07:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Donald C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not cursed. What seems to be a curse is but an evil suggestion, and not a fact. Life can be very bumpy but one must keep the faith and know that in so doing brighter days are coming, even though at times it seems as if they will never. Keep the faith and realize strength comes from God. On your next interview, know that God is in control and going to place you where it is best for Him.
2007-01-03 07:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all to honor our parents. There are no qualifiers with this. We do not honor them because they love us, or give us things, or whatever. We honor them because God told us to; and, our reverence for God and doing His will in our lives supercedes our own.
Also, honoring our parents changes over time from obeying them to ultimately caring for them.
Further, what you deem as abusive may simply be your opinion. Alot of people blame others or things for their own shortcomings or failure to get what they want. Often, however, most of our problems result from our own self-centeredness, self-righteousness, and lack of Christ as Lord of your Life. We try control our own lives rather than submitting through faith to the Lord for direction. In the end, our lives become one miserable mess when we leave Christ out of it.
Now you bore a child out of marriage, poorly set the example to your child that her dad is a jerk, live alone, and are unemployed. You made this bed and will have to sleep in it.
My best advice is (1) the get yourself straight with the Lord, (2) quit making excuses and grow up, and (3) start being a positive role model for your child.
2007-01-03 07:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by BowtiePasta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not cursed....life is very hard.
But, you are very strong and just need to redirect your anger
You have given many reason for being upset. All very good reasons. Now give a reason to be happy and focus on that. As for people its sometimes hard to connect. You have a lot of healing to do and as that becomes clear so will your connection in life to people
2007-01-03 07:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no usually people who has problems like you have some type of disorder. ADHD, Autism,Audio processing disorder, bipolar, etc/etc. This is from observation
2007-01-03 07:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life Is Cruel.
-Repent And Thou Shall Be Saved-
2007-01-03 07:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by eeklipz777 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not if you repent
2007-01-03 07:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋