I'm going to my country to meet a guy which my parents have choose for my arrange marriage. I've been talking to him over a month so we can know about each other. Sometimes, he doesn't call me and respond back to my messages and when I ask him, he simply says that he was asleep or he was out with friends. But I guess he doesn't realize that a relationship should start with respect and caring. So, I'm having second opinions about him wheather he's the right one for me. I don't know wut to do. Please advise.
2007-01-03 07:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by flower 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
dont do what your parents say , follow your heart
2007-01-03 07:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow Flower this is a big step. Especially as an arranged Marriage. I bet your very nervous & scared. Understand that your husband to be does have a life. Especially since you two are so far apart. Talk to him about your concerns. Let him know that you are nervouse & really want things to work out. Let him know that when you don't hear from him it makes you wonder if this will work. Gage what he says...it may be nothing.
Hope it works out.
2007-01-03 15:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being selfish. He has a life outside of you, ya know. He has friends, and he needs to sleep. Sorry he's not at your beckon call all hours of the day or night. That is the sad reality. You should be more tolerant of his personal time.
2007-01-03 15:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Surely you aren't being serious in today's culture?
2007-01-03 15:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Turnhog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can you chose your own husband. it is a big comitment you know
2007-01-03 15:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't
2007-01-03 15:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the dowry?
2007-01-03 15:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by jinenglish68 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋