i think i have low self esteem in the looks department. i posted a question before about thinking im afraid of being in a relationship and i think i may be. i dont find myself attractive but people tell me im pretty and when iwas in LA on holiday once a woman from a teen modelling agency came to me and said iwas 'gorgeous' but peoples words only help me feel good about myself for the moment and then i hate the way i look again. im quite curvy, well i have an extra few pounds not alot but i could still never imagine anyone loving me for me. is it true that if you cant love yourself no one can love you?...what can i do to improve myself self esteem and feel good about myself?
2007-01-03 07:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by just a girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth is that we, all of us, are our own worst critics. People tell me all the time I'm pretty. I don't see it. It's enough for me that others think I am, so I'm not going to worry about it.
You Do need to build up your self confidence though, and that will come as you mature. You are unique, you are YOU, and you're not exactly like anybody else on this planet, NOR would you want to be. When you go out, make sure you like the way you look, that the clothes you wear make you feel good. Learn all you can so you can make informed opinions about things. Be friendly and polite to everyone you meet and treat everyone as YOU want to be treated. Keep a smile on your face, hold your head up and walk tall. Self confidence will follow.
2007-01-03 07:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Shopaholic it's sad that so many young females as you are at present. It is not easy to gain the much needed confidence that you seem to be lacking but hopefully soon you will be able to walk with this air of confidence (which is the biggest turn on around - a woman who is confident in herself) and not be stuck up but friendly and believe that your just as good as the girl beside you. Sometimes it comes with age but other times we just need to practice this skill, even if while alone and in front of a mirror. Believe in yourself and good things will happen for you. Best of luck.
2007-01-03 07:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't need some one next to you to make you feel better okay I'm sure your beautiful every one is pretty in their own way about self esteem every one goes through that but in time you will get over it try going out more don't put your self down
2007-01-03 07:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent a ton of money on my babys room on matching bedding, decorations, etc. He is 5 months old and doesnt even sleep in his room yet. The baby wont notice if things are coordinated or whatever. My diaper bag, stroller, car seat, and swing all match. Its ok to match and coordinate some things but dont get out of hand!
2016-03-29 06:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my oppinion, you need to make a daily plan to do something.
anything! there's comfort in accomplishments. Take simple risks. Volunteer at a food bank or hospital. Join a health club and sign up for a class. I have friends that took a night school cooking class at their community college.
2007-01-03 07:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by another detroit bassist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU KNOW THE TRUE MEANING OF LOVE??? LOVE IS NOT THE BEAUTY NOTHING ELSE LOVE IS TO GIVE AND TO RECEIVE FROM A SPECIAL PERSON WHO CARE FOR YOU ,WHO TRUST YOU AND WHO WOULD JUST DIE TO SAVE YOUR HAPPINESS... TRUST YOUR HEART IT WILL NEVER DECEIVED YOU WHEREAS YOUR EYES MAY DECEIVED YOU.. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL SO THAT EVERYTHING IS BEAUTIFUL IN THIS WORLD. DON'T STOP AT WHAT YOU SEE IN THE MIRROR CLOSE YOUR EYES SO THAT YOU CAN OPEN IT WITH A NEW VISION OF HOW YOU ARE INSIDE IN YOUR HEART IT IS WHERE THE TRUE BEAUTY START!!!
2007-01-03 07:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate me tooo....its not about what others think its about what you think... wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and give yourself 2 or 3 good compliments .... smile more and spoil yourself every once in a wile. good luck Beautiful
2007-01-03 07:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, lots of guys love girls that are a little chubby and curvy, including myself. I find it so sexy. Email me
2007-01-03 07:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not alone... i feel the same exact way too girl..... and talking to my friends (true friends) really helps because they can understan me... and u need to think too..... now i'm trying to be more cheerful and not depressed because its a new year... time to start with a clean slate
2007-01-03 07:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats life...lol
2007-01-03 07:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋