is haveing this miny kids a bad thing?

Question

i have a 13 year old son a 2 year old son and triplits on the way!
i LOVE kids and i get along with them all the time, some one in this kids group told me i have to miny and all the moms there have 2-3 kids and i have 2 and geting ready to have 5
i love kids and i wouldnt want to get rid of ANY of mine

and i dont want to be depressed when im prengant because that could be unhealthy babys


any one help me to deal with women like this?

Answer 1

kids are a wonder full thing they bring joy to life
it doesn't matter what people think there YOU kids and it shouldn't matter what people do or say
stand up for your self u can always leave The group

Answer 2

You should tell her just because other people only want 2-3 kids doesnt mean anything is wrong with wanting more kids, I have 3 boys now and want more alot of people tell me that I have enough kids already but I just tell them I am the one raising them and they are well taken care of and loved.

I have a friend who has 7 kids...she just had a new baby in Dec after 8 years.

Answer 3

You do what works for you and don't let anyone tell you that's a bad thing. I'm one of 5 kids and I had a great childhood and wonderful parents. I only have 2 kids and I don't know how my mother did it with 5, but she did and she did a great job. Just ignore women who say you have too many. 5 may be too many for them to handle, but that doesn't mean it is too many for you to have. Besides, you are already pregnant with the triplets what does she expect you to do.

Answer 4

What does it matter what others think? Family's come in all different sizes. As long as your a good and responsible parent that takes care of her children then that's all that matters. Besides it's not like these people are going to be there for you through all of this so why even give them the satisfaction of getting to you? It's just not worth it.

Answer 5

No way! 5 used to be such a small family. It's only recently that "common knowledge" seemed to indicate that 5 was a "large" family! God loves little ones! His very first commandment was to be fruitful and multiply! I only pray and hope that one day I may be as blessed as you have been. I'm dead serious.

"Children too are a gift from the LORD, the fruit of the womb, a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children born in one's youth. Blessed are they whose quivers are full."
Psalms 127:3-5

God bless you all!!!!

Answer 6

no that is not alot. dog the bounty hunter had 12 kids two died young but anyway his oldest is 34 and youngest is 5 or 6 he has 10 kids. and my friend is one of 6 kids so do not worry and tell her to back of and atleast you found a man and have a big loving family

Answer 7

Having that many kids is certainly not a bad thing. Those mothers apparently think their way is the only way. I say if you can support them all, and give them all the love they need, go for it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Answer 8

I don't think you should worry about what other people say. If you handle all those kids then go for it. Don't let anyone tell you how many kids you should have. If your kids are all healthy and happy and your financially stable to support them, then have as many as you want. GOOD LUCK in the future.

Answer 9

I have 4 children and I wouldn't trade any of them, I've wanted 4 since I was a little girl, I come from a family of 5 so it is just normal for me.

Answer 10

Kids are awesome. As long as they can go back to their parents when they scream! I just wish you good luck! And I hope you sleep now or get help once the babies are born, cuz thats a lot to handle you'll be up all night. Its your choice. Do what you want. And tell those who say you can't "watch me!" and prove them wrong!