please help me
2007-01-03 05:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by xi xi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like a person you have to understand that you will have no clue what that person feels about you if you don't start a conversation or ask that person out. I say: If you don't have the guts to talk to someone you really like then you don't really like that someone, it's just an obsession or you think you like someone, but you don't.
If you really feel you like someone, then talk and try to get closer to that person or else you will go nowhere and just live with a fantasy you make up by your own.Take a chance, it doesn't matter what happens, there's plenty of fish in sea, if you don't catch one another will be there for you to try and catch it.
2007-01-03 06:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chicana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it comes down on you. If you don't want to talk to that person in a public place. Choose a more quiet setting. If you don't want to do that get an ambassador. Your best friend, a trusted person who won't let it get out to every one. This is how it works. Your friend talks to him/her for you so you don't have the stress to deal with the pain of being "crush"ed or the joy that he/she likes you back.
2007-01-03 14:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rydon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. Life can be very short, don't miss out on anything. If you get turned down, you won't waist anymore time thinking about it. And you'll get past it. I'm over 50 and I have been involved in any situation you can imagine. I've learned that you need to be honest. You may not get the result you wanted, but you've made this step, keep moving!!
2007-01-03 14:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by DWM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to me all the time. I never talk to him. Do u have a class with him? maybe u can move ur desk closer to him? or at lunch have u friends and u sit near him. These are some tips, email me or IM me plz so u can go into further detail.
-kaycee
2007-01-03 14:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Answer Gurl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of growing up is learning that those feelings never go away, you just need to learn to overcome them with other emotions. Are you really going to sit there and wonder for the better part of your teenage year "if only I had asked him .... " So I say push your shyness away, pretend you're confident and do it!! Good luck! :)
2007-01-03 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be just like u at first its really hard to talk to someone but when u get used to it its so easy and it should be easy for u beacuse i think that your a really beautiful girl go 4 it
2007-01-03 14:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by maury williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i write a note to them but sign it like a sercert admirer. i usually write a poem like:
roses r red,
violets r blue,
honey is sweet,
but not like u.
or something from the heart like:
i like u,
do u like me?
i would spend a thousand years,
at ur door step.
just answer me this,
will u smile if
i touched ur hand?
i always like to sound romantic. best of luck to u.
Shelly
2007-01-03 14:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Yemiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself the anguish of never knowing and ask. The more you do it. The easier it gets. You're only scared of the unknown. Once you ask, then you know. No more scared.
2007-01-03 14:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone else to talk to them. Works for me.
2007-01-03 14:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by jz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write them a note and get over your shyness b/c being shy will get u nowhere in life.
2007-01-03 14:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋