I've been dating this guy for over 3 months. He would do any thing for me ,but i'm not sure about my feelings for him , but today we almost went all the way. I'm only 14 and he's 17. Should I be doing this???
2007-01-03 05:55:13 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO you should wait. He is 17 and you are 14 if you go all the way he could just up and leave after the fact. Three months is a short time. His hormones are just ragging and he is wanting some ....don't give in or put yourself in that situation again. Pregnancy is real these day so much more common in younger girls.. Wait honey your worth it and you'll enjoy it much more when your a little bit older and know how to handle all the feelings that come with having sex.
2007-01-03 06:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be careful... even if you think that you are ready to "go all the way" at 14, I can promise you that you are not. I am also fairly sure that if you did he could get in trouble with the law.
if you are not sure about your feelings for him maybe you should back off for a while and think abou them. Since you are questioning your actions I am going to assume that your gut is telling you that you should not be doing this. Listen to your gut! If it feels wrong then it is.
Also, you should be protecting yourself when and if you do decide to go all the way. Get on birth control BEFORE you have sex and always use a condom! Always, no excuses.
There is a lot to think about here and at 14 I would think that this is more complication than you need in your life.
2007-01-03 14:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not go that far but it is all up to you. It should be all about how both of you feel for each other. If he there for you no matter what then stay with him, but don't stay with him if you are just with for having sex. There is way too many people that have a relationship that is just like that.
2007-01-03 13:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Country Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amanda
If you need to ask then you are not ready.
Besides that you are way too young to do that stuff!
wait until you're ready physically and emotionally...your little pervert boyfriend needs to find a girl his own age!
2007-01-03 14:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... you shouldn't be doing that... this is your boyfriends way of breaking you down... until you reach that no return point... tell him right from the git go that you're uneasy about the situation "he" is puting you in...
2007-01-03 14:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your too young, stop and think about what happens if something goes wrong...you have ur whole life in front of you....if you get what i mean!
2007-01-03 13:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO.......too many emotions come with it and your too young to be dealing wit dem......believe me i noe...........
2007-01-03 14:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by iLOVEyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should wait!
2007-01-03 13:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!
2007-01-03 14:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by ADH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋