My boyfriend usually is online. And when I log-in, he hardly initiates conversation on MSN. I most of the time have to start it up.
2007-01-03 05:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well at first he initiated conversations often and he wanted to talk forever and then he just made it less and less and then he was busy dping this and that and then it was 3 weeks without conversation and then (the advice I was given was to ignore him) didnt work and I had to message him and then he talked for a bit and had to go and in the end after another 2 weeks (right this very moment 5 seconds ago) I ended it and it was horrible he just said ok bubye! and when I asked him if he meant it when he said he loved me he went offline so its up to you. best thing is to do the advice I could never finish to the end. well Ids always give in int ghe end but believe me its the best no matter what . IGNORE HIM and wait for him to message you!!!!
2007-01-03 06:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awh look - there's so many examples there of him being an idiot. When you asked why he was interested NOW - he didn't explain why now and not before. Avoiding the question seems to be a forté with him. He's being an idiot to himself and being completely unfair on you. Really the easiest thing to do is just to forget about him. Don't reply to his texts (no matter how tempting), don't meet him, don't speak to him - anything. He has too much baggage - who wants to get with some guy that is still in love with his ex girlfriend? And doesn't even WANT to forget about her? Leave him be, seriously and just get on with your own life. You'll find some other guy who's into you and only you and not **** you about.
2016-03-29 06:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think it's a little odd. If you usually talk or see each other everyday though, maybe he just doesn't have anything new to talk about. But still, he should at least send you a little cyber kiss or something. =0P
Ask him why he doesn't say anything when you come online. Is it possible that he doesn't know when you get on?
2007-01-03 05:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's odd to expect to communicate online with a boyfriend. Unless you're doing the long distance thing, why not just call him if you want to talk?
2007-01-03 05:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds sups pious to me.Sounds like he is either hiding or he is to into a conversation and not with you.The Internet is awesome but it is a relationship(chat)nightmare if your not in a healthy relationship..
2007-01-03 05:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by karen e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a lil odd...my bf used to do that on MSN too...i just never contacted first...eventually he would..now he's the one to start first. Just ask him.
good luck.
2007-01-03 05:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't really care about you. Talk to him and ask him why this is so, and if he can't come up with a good explanation, then dump him.
2007-01-03 05:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a little fishy. i would ask him whats up when he is on the computer and go next to him and look when he least expects it. just be natural and pretend like you are oblivoius. sneaky is the best way to go. :)
2007-01-03 05:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by xo_Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him the same question but just diffrant words!! like why dont you talk to me online?? you know just a strait to the point question! good luck!!
2007-01-03 05:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah Marah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dump the guy and go on its pretty obvious that he doesnt want to talk to u so go on with your life
2007-01-03 05:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by maury williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋