Can a guy ask you out in the gym, while you are working out? If so what is a good approach?
2007-01-03 05:51:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. But make sure it's at the end of your workout and you're leaving. I wouldn't want to work out in a gym with a potential date watching me!
Just go up to her and say, "hey, are you training for something particular or just keeping in shape?... blah blah... want to go out to dinner sometime?"
But DON'T and I mean DON'T strut your stuff. A guy strutting his stuff in a gym is total 'ego'.
2007-01-03 05:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me personally because I don't workout at a gym, but yes it's acceptable if she seems interested...some people (men and women) go to the gym to workout and are very serious about that...they don't like their workout space treated as a "meat market" so make some eye contact and wait 'til you have a positive vibe before approaching someone...or perhaps catch her on her way out of the gym...
2007-01-03 05:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess so, I mean at least I know you work out and try to take care of yourself and we would at least have that in common.
Then again I've heard women say that they feel like they are in a meat market when they go to the gym with the way men stare at them. Anyway, I work out in the privacy of my home.
2007-01-03 05:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by jupitor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I quit a gym because of being bothered while working out. Don't do it......The opportunity may present itself with this woman at another time....leave her alone when she's working out! Odds are that she's not there to make dates.
2007-01-03 05:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were single, you betcha! though i've had it happen anyway. start off with small talk. ask her if she's having or had a good workout, that way you can guage in her answer if she's going to be open to talk. then ask her what does she do in her spare time when she's not in the gym...i know you could handle things from there. lol. Good luck to ya!
2007-01-03 05:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong in asking you out in a gym? At least you know that he/she is attracted to your body! ( as opposed to your money or something else!)
2007-01-03 05:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you can but of course not while she is in the middle of lifting weights wait until she is walking to her next station and casually spark up a conversation and just ask her to dinner or wherever you want to take her.
2007-01-03 05:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...like if i am not in the mood to be bother and i am running and he come trying to hit on me then no, i mean i go to work out i don't go to meet guys and it does some times get's on my nerves when they do because i am not in my job/club to be aks out. i just want to work out. good approach so far just as a hi and how you doing with out drooling....but that's me.
2007-01-03 06:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy can ask any girl out anywhere. A good approach? just be yourself man! :) good luck!
2007-01-03 05:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe when she is leaving because she maybe be embarresassed about the way she looks while working out. y ou now girls don't like to be sweaty in front of guys. good luck
2007-01-03 05:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by xo_Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋