I'm dating a guy and we talked about what our r/ship is, I wanted to be bf/gf but he wanted to keep it casual. So I agreed and continued seeing him. Then a couple weeks later he says out of the blue "So why do you want to be my girlfriend?" I kind of got nervous and fumbled the conversation. But could it be he has changed his mind and that is why he is bringing it up again? He wants to "reassess?"
2007-01-03 05:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a guy and that I am sure is why he never makes sense.. lol.. sorry guys, girls are the same way.. I think that it is just in our nature. He prolly wants you just is afraid to make that step.. He is still there with you that is a good sign
2007-01-03 05:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't guess what he meant, you need to ask him why he asked. It may be that having given your relationship some thought he's decided he does want you to be your girlfriend. Or, it may simply be he's being egotistical and wants to hear you say some flattering things. Let's hope it's the former. Good luck.
2007-01-03 13:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's at least contemplating becoming serious with you. Think about his question, and give him an open and honest answer. Tell him why you want to be serious. Write it down and tell him if you need to.
2007-01-03 13:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by t t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has changed? does he see or know of someone else that is interested in you or does he think u are interested in someone? casual means u do each other and whoever. Talk to him and see whats up
2007-01-03 14:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could have been the first time he didn't see you as a g/f but now after hanging out with you, he does and wants more
2007-01-03 13:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he wants a commitment now. He may not have wanted one earlier because may have felt you were wanting to much to fast. He's ready now so go for it.
2007-01-03 13:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by capnemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not have been very clear in your understanding of your last discussion on the topic
2007-01-03 13:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably.
2007-01-03 13:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask hem why he asked you
2007-01-03 13:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by sinderala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex
2007-01-03 13:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋