I hapen 2 luv some1 else, but dis guy shows wth his actions dat he likes me. Its not possible 4 me 2 love him 2 & i like him as a frend.He hasnt proposed yt, but wat if he does?How can i reject his proposal without really turnin Him down?I reali luv da guy sed B4 and dont wanna B a 2timer, coz dats not wat i am. Plz help!
2007-01-03 03:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You see, there are 2 guys. I is some whom i love. While the other is the guy hu likes me! I luk up 2 da latter as a frend. We dont tak much,but he just keeps on staring @ me, goes wherevr im goin n stuff.Evry1 ses dat hes rich n spoiled but i kno he has a tender hart,but i dont luv him.I fear dat if he proposes 2 me,i wont B able 2 face him.
I dont want money,its da person dat matters 2 me.Da guy I Luv, is truli a good man,and i feel luky abt meself 2 hav luved him! But da other guy hu likes me, dosnt kno dis.
I need 2 make dis oder guy undrstnd dis, but how??
2007-01-03 05:03:33 · update #1
Be considerate and friendly but a little formal with this guy whom you don't love so that he doesn't misinterpret your friendly gestures. You may casually mention to him that you are in love with a guy or you like someone called so and so. This will remove his doubts. Its better to tell him that and get over it before he has a chance to say something but if he soes propose before you can tell him anything, just tell him that he has been a good friend of yours and you would never want to hurt him but you are already in love with someone else and you don't want to tell lies to him and mislead him.
2007-01-03 04:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes u might find more happiness with a person that loves u rather than someone who u love n u say that he has a nice heart too. Maybe give him a chance but even if that doesn't work, then wait till he asks u out n then tell him frankly that u just want to be good friends. Also, maybe the guy u think likes u may really not like u and he's probably staring at u coz he has a habit or something!!
If u really wanna scare him away, do something disgusting in front of him like dig your nose n he'll run away!!
2007-01-03 07:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by In the Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest in convincing your true intention..If U really do not love him the why did U make him to feel so about U by him..U need some one to roam in motor bikes..night parties..Discos..Candle dinners...U need other one as life partner...So U made ur life miserable by making the both innocent guys foolish...Pl try to be straught forward in your motives...otherwise U may marry some one...U may carry someones's Baby...R U ready for this ?
2007-01-03 04:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As u don't love him, u can say that directly to him when he proposes.
otherwise before he proposes show him or convey by one or the other means that u LOVE some one else.If he again proposes u can say that u are already in love with the first guy.
Hope this helps u
All the best
2007-01-03 20:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by good_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a walk with the guy u love in front of the other guy
before the second guy proposes.
2007-01-03 09:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chandrasekaran S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of time this happens, u just tell him that you are going to him a screte of him and tell him that u r loving someone else, only this would work out well.
2007-01-03 04:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by rathu s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well.. u can tell this guy that u just want to be friends.. if he picks up the hints than great otherwise u might have 2 tell him.. that u like some1 else.
2007-01-03 04:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by bαby mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to set definite boundaries that you guys are just friends and nothing else. that is an easy way to let him know without hurting him and stoping him from ever asking
2007-01-03 09:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say no, dont tell i love you just tell him i like you and wait for his turn then decide weather you love him or like him because he understand your feelings which most important thing in life
2007-01-03 04:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by neeraj s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must decide from your heart to whom you love. Because this question wouldnt have arrived it.
2007-01-03 05:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Pooja Mehta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋