2007-01-03 03:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by babygurl4u30 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Why is it bad that you want a baby? Are you 14 or something?? If you think you are pregnant take a test.
2007-01-03 03:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by The_Game 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I had a miscarriage 4 years ago this march. It killed me, I still haven't gotten over it. Every pregnancy I have had since then, I have been so scared it would happen again. The mothers day after I had the miscarriage was the worst. That's when I knew I was meant to be a mom and wanted to be a mom. Getting pregnant again was the most important thing to me. It took me till December to get pregnant again and I am so happy I did. Now I have two beautiful baby girls and love everyday with them. If you feel like its your time in your life to be a mom, I say go for it. I don't think there is a certain time frame in which you have to wait to have a baby. I wish you the best of luck and hope everything goes well for you. Happy New Year.
2007-01-03 03:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're not done with school yet, which I'm assuming you're not given some of your other questions then it is not necessarily a good thing you want a baby. And given that you had already been pregnant a few months ago...I just don't understand why someone so young would want to have a baby in the first place and then become pregnant multiple times while in high school. Finish high school, go to college, get a good job and establish yourself before even thinking about having kids.
2007-01-03 03:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a Pregnancy test. It is not a bad thing to want a baby as long as you are able and are Old enough to provide a home for it. It is in most women's nature to want a baby and that feeling is increased 10 fold when a woman has experienced a miscarriage. Getting pregnant after a miscarriage reassures us that we can be pregnant and carry a baby full term. By your grammar and spelling it sounds like you might be a bit young. Please don't make any mistakes that you will regret. It is not a bad thing to want a baby, but if you're a kid, wait until you're older! Good Luck!
2007-01-03 03:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by MRod 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
School is what you need to be focused on. I know. I know. That is what everyone is saying but you know what? It is true. There is not a person that I know that has had sex before marriage or adulthood that does not wish they did things a little differently and as for those of us who have had children in high school and the beginning of college let me tell you it is not an easy job. We may love them but we know that if we would have focused on our education we would be much better able to support our children and provide them with the things that they need and want if we would have just waited a little while longer and gotten through with school. Many teenagers go through such a phase. Having these thoughts is not wrong but you have to talk to someone and make an intelligent decision. If you think that you are pregnant though you need to tell someone so that you can go to the doctor and decide what your next step will be.
2007-01-03 03:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Laura L. 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no its not a bad thing but i think you should give your body a bit of time but if you are pregnant and your happy then so be it i know how hard a miscarriage is i had one at 20 weeks i did go on to have a healthy baby boy all my best wishes go with you good luck xx
2007-01-03 03:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a miscarriage there are many stages of emotion, guilt, anger, the desire to never have children and a strong desire to have another child.
Regardless of if you are or are not pregnant you may want to look up the book "empty crade broken heart". I'm currently reading it myself.
2007-01-03 03:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it is not a bad thing if you want to be a parent. As long as you are emotionally and financially ready. You should take a pregnancy test to find out.
2007-01-03 03:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by tkdehay 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad thing if you do not know.
Children should not be accidents!
They should be planned for and welcome in this world.
And it is not just your life. It is your baby's life!!!!
Do you have enough $ to send him or her to school,
to buy lunches, to buy clothes that look good.
Will you have to work 12 hours per day just so you can provide all of that
and let your kid pickk up drugs because you are not around?
Giving birth to a baby out of a boredom is a very selfish thing!
2007-01-03 03:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Of coarse it,s not a bad thing to want a baby,If you think that you may be pregnant,Make a appointment to see your GP.Good luck i hope that it goes well for you.
2007-01-03 03:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋