how do you know if someone is cheating on you?

Answer 1

Good Question!!!
If you want to catch a cheater you don't do it by asking questions to him or her(interrogation)
You don't do it by getting mad and furious at them.

You simply chill out and act as if nothing is wrong. Do not alert the sitation that he or she knows you might know.

It is time to play Naieve.

Now for the next lesson.

Chapter two>>>Every Man or Woman that cheats on their significant other will have what is called a Mood change. These changes are so obvious that you can't possibly miss it.

Chapter three>.Now after sevral months have gone by and you have been on your best as if nothihg is going on, you are ready to apply the solution that will reveal his or hers cheating ways. ready for this????

When he or she comes home you say "A person called today and then they hung up when I answered, I hate oprank calls dont; you?"

NOW wait and see what his or her reaction is to that.
If they say, who was it? Their guilty

Answer 2

He is not as available to you as he used to be. He will probably have a hard time looking you in the eye because he is hiding something. He may not answer his phone as quickly as he used to. You just need to ask him if you think that is what is happening and then dump the two-timer if he is cheating on you.

Answer 3

You've been together several months, but something doesn't feel quite right with your partner. You start wondering if he or she might be having an affair. Is it jealousy, your imagination or just apathy that is the result of long-term complacency with each other? It can be hard to tell sometimes, but when in doubt go with your gut and look for the following behaviors that might mean your mate is having an affair.

Oddly, your partner might be having an affair if he or she is acting MORE attentive than usual to you. If you are suddenly showered with gifts and compliments in what almost seems like an inappropriate manner, then he or she might be trying to make up for guilty feelings.

Look for a sudden change in your partner's routine. Is he or she staying out a lot longer than usual, not showing up for dinner or unaccountable at times for his or her whereabouts? If your partner suddenly alters his or her daily habits that too can be a sign of cheating.

If your partner is frequently picking fights with you, that might also mean big trouble. The emotional logic behind this is that picking a fight gives him or her to an excuse to fly out of the house and possibly into the arms of the third party. That way the cheating partner can deny guilty feelings and blame you instead. If you are not to blame, a cheater will create a reason to justify what he or she is doing to you.

Your mate might also become overly critical of you. This is part of an agenda that once again, gives them an excuse to leave or justify the affair. The guilty partner might also be overly sensitive to criticism from you as there may be a ring of truth that triggers guilty feelings that they would rather not face.

If every time you have fight your partner threatens you with ending the relationship, you might also have a cheater on your hands. Your lover feels safe with these ultimatums because they have another person as "back-up" should the two of you decide to split up.

Another sign of cheating is a consistent negative attitude towards the relationship and comments that make you feel as if you have an expiry date inked on your forehead. This might include saying such things as "I would like to travel next year." (with no mention of a "we") or "You know I will always love you, even if this ever ended."

If your lover becomes withdrawn and depressed, it could be that he or she is brooding about what they have done and can't handle the guilt. Sudden explosive displays of affection or anger can also be a bad sign, as the partner might be transferring emotional reactions from the infidelity onto you simply because you see each other more often. In other words, you may be the recipient of a mood that is not due to any of your actions at all.

If your mate becomes incommunicative and refuses to interact with you, this can also be a sign of cheating. He or she might seem cold or inconsiderate of your feelings and be less intimate with you in general. This kind of psychological distancing includes such behaviors such as locking the bathroom door when he or she has always left it open. They may also insist that they pick up their own dry cleaning or keep locked drawers. They may also insist on doing their own laundry. If he or she seems extra finicky about personal boundaries or seems to be trying to set new rules about privacy, this is also a warning sign.

Relationship experts say that if your partner's taste in clothing, movies or music suddenly changes, than they may be trying please their new lover.

Another sign of cheating is if your partner seems to be a bit over the top when cutting up or criticizing a person that both of you know quite well. This is a common tactic used to conceal an affair that leads you believe that nothing would ever be possible between the two of them.

Perhaps the biggest indication that you might be dealing with a cheater is if they stop acting as if they are a part of your life. They may lose complete interest in family, friends or following through on mutual financial goals or plans for the future. Your mate also might be reluctant to go out of town for any reason, as that might cause a crisis in his or her other relationship.

If you do discover that your mate is cheating, you are likely to go through the five stages of grief - shock denial, anger, sadness and acceptance. There is no underestimating the enormous impact of these reactions, even if you had a gut feeling that you knew about the affair all along.

Your relationship will also probably go through three phases. The first is the reaction to the affair, the second is the decision as to what to do about it and the last is a recuperation phase (whether or not you decide to stick it out with your partner in the end.) If your partner is willing to be part of the decision and recuperation phases, it is highly recommended that you seek marriage or relationship counseling to deal with the fall-out from the infidelity.

Answer 4

You get a whole bunch of exscuses from them for their absences, You need trust to have love though, so if you don't trust him and think he may be cheating then, unfortunately, it is already over, sweetie... try to make it work

Answer 5

You get this really bad feeling in your gut, like never before. Check into your doubts, before accusing. Look at your relationship, has there been any changes? There are many things that can lead you to believe it, but look for proof.If you can find any proof, then it may not be happening.

Answer 6

He's busy...... alot. Doesnt make that much time for you anymore - There are exceptions to this rule though ( new job, just bought a house etc).... Also, him not answering the phone is another red flag- especially at night.

Answer 7

There are definitely signs. He may become distant. He seems like he is keeping something from you. His answers to where he has been become very vague. You will be able to see the evidence.

Answer 8

there will usually be small signs to start off with. if you can watch the body language.,like difference in attitude,ignoring you more,more phone calls than normal,leaving at unusual hours,staying out later than normal

Answer 9

It depends....but if you know him well you'll probably be able to pick up on it. If he doesn't include you on his trips out of town, visiting certain friends, avoids you, gets away from you to take calls on his cell phone, seems distracted....could be any number of indicators. Trust your gut!

Answer 10

they never come see you and they try there best to not to talk to you!I been in it more then one time if that person likes you then he/she won't cheat on you!!!


good luck