Have you ever felt you have a heavy heart ? Feelings so intense that you can feel a tingling sensation all over ? Despair that makes you feel the wind can blow right through you. So many life experiences in this journey we call life. Many times when we look back and ponder on what was and what is, what we have chosen and what we could have choosed instead, making us feel overwhelmed. I feel deep within a pain in my soul, something I can not find the correct words to express. My heart is crying out, my soul aches. I feel lost in such a huge world, away from my children, my family, married to someone I thought I knew, and realized that I really do not. We can not hold responsible anyone but ourselves for the situation we are in, for it is our choice ultimatly that decides what will be done or not, causing this to begin a road we will walk in. This new year is filled with faith deep within that everything in my life will fall into place ( with the right choices) Have you felt this also?
2007-01-03 03:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I want to thank everyone for taking time to answer.
I am so aware that we have to place things in Gods hands, have faith, yes, and it is so true that everything exists in the spiritual realm , then in the physical one. Thoughts are things. I have never felt sorry for myself, as I said before we are responsible for our choices that pave our road, yet many times we feel so lost.
For the person who answered for me to have a drink, I must disagree, drinking will never solve anything. We can not run from our feelings or situations, we need to embrace them, and go on.
I do not feel self pity either. No matter how much we read, study and search for spiritual enlightment, I find that there are times when we feel just plain overwhelmed.
Times when we need the direction we give to others, a little light to get us through a dark tunnel. Once again , thank you all,
Love, Light and peace be with you all in this journey we call life
2007-01-03 03:42:26 · update #1
Hi Tatiana,
I'm glad that I clicked onto your question. I have been thru something so similiar. There was a time when I felt that my life had crashed. An over whelming numb feeling and loss. Saddness, so deep that walking felt off and strange. I lost my confidence and had a hard time even talking to people. I didnt know what to do with myself. I was with out my kids ( 3 girls) I had no money, no car, and roomates that left me with huge bills. I didnt know what to do, I spent most of my time drawing,crying and thinking. My main goal became to get back with my girls, each day little by little I would do something that would get me in the right direction. Life is a journey and the road that you travel has bumps and turns, thats o.k, learn to adjust and keep moving forward. Dont beat yourself up over the decisions that you have made this far.All the things that you go thru make you who you are. Learn from the places and rough spots in your journey. Try to make better decisions. And ask yourself every day...." Is this what I really want" It took me almost 2 years after my breaking point to actually get to my destination. I'm now married to a great guy, we have a 3 year old together. My other daughters are doing much better because we are all together now. I still have some bad days and I do regret some of the things that I have done. But when I look back now to how far I have come, I am happy. Be patient...your life right now will change, a year from now things could be completley different,if you make it happen. Your not stuck, there are things that you can do.One day at a time,( I dont mean to sound preachy, I'm not religious at all).Try to make the right decisions and move forward, dont expect yourself to be perfect. You may have to make some really big decisions coming up, especially if the man that you married is not the man that you thought he was. You have one life..do what you want with it. Dont stay where you are not happy, you deserve to be happy. Good Luck, feel free to e-mail me anytime. Sometimes having a friend can really help..
Hope to hear from ya,
Rebecca
skipper44567@yahoo.com
2007-01-03 03:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul searching is getting down to heart of things about yourself. Ask yourself questions about what your searching for and answer them honestly. Soul searching is really getting to know yourself and finding out if you lifke that person and would you like them as a friend. If the answer is no, you need to make some changes, if the answer is yes, then your a pretty good person. Soul searching is something we should all do on a regular basis. Hope this helps
2016-05-22 22:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know exactly what you mean. You are a woman after my own heart. I totally understand you. Every decision is so crucial to the outcome of the rest of your life. Hence the saying, "so a man thinketh, so is he." If nothing else we are taught in this obscene world is valid, one thing is for certain, "seed time and harvest." Everything is operated by this principle, everything. The pain and confusion that I feel on a regular basis due to previous decisions as well as present ones are all but overwhelming. At times, I feel as if it would be best if I weren't to decide at all, but, that is impossible, for even that would be a decision! You have ignited a topic that I've been waiting for someone to activate.
I will keep you in my watch list because I am anxious to read more of your responses.
2007-01-03 03:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Leo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 2006 was a year so filled with events that shook me up and caused me to wonder about all the if's and's and but's, but in the end I am confident that My God shall supply all my needs, that He still has a purpose for my life, that He has given me a future and a hope, that He has not left me nor has he forsaken me and that He who began a good work in me will work to bring it to completion. Each day is the day that the Lord has made and I will be glad and rejoice in it continuing to rely on Him for directions and support in making the right desisions through prayer.
2007-01-03 03:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It take more than faith. Take as much time as you need to talk to God, but then you have to make the final decision as to the difficult choices that must be made. Make the best choice you can, and then don't look back. Move on to make major changes in your life. Fretting over past mistakes will get you nowhere.
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2007-01-03 03:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Hatikvah 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, We all have our low points in life, some more then others. The best thing to do is put your faith in God and do the best you can, one day at a time. Do not dwell on mistakes from the past, learn from them and work on the future. Best wishes.
2007-01-03 03:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by JAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're neck deep in your own pity party. This is a path of destruction.
You need to nurture your soul girl...
Seek wisdom, truth, and practice being loving. Then relish everything in this world that is beautiful. Then when you find that you yourself are a part of the beauty of the world then you will experience enlightenment.
2007-01-03 03:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly, the creation of the heavens and the earth is greater than the creation of mankind; but most men know not.
And the blind and the seeing are not equal; neither are those who believe and do good deeds equal to those who do evil. Little do you reflect.
2007-01-03 03:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by MUHAMMAD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so stress myself about money and my children but I know that God is on my side without God I would not have any hope
2007-01-03 03:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life does not fall into place.I do not care what year it is.We all
make mistakes and we all live with that.
2007-01-03 03:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋