Well you can read my prev questions to see what has been going on....... I have continued to talk to her still even agianst some of your better adivce. she would like to meet up as friends and spend time as friends im not sure if i can spend time with her and keep my feeling bottled up i feel like crying just on the phone with her.. should i go and see her and express my emotions or should i bottle them back up and try to forget it even happend... she said its ok if i cry with her but i dont want to show her im weak especially since she has hurt me so i dont want to my feeling to be taken advantage of agian. Please any help would be great. By the way this is a serious question we are two adults not kids so some serious responses would be appriecated Thank you
2007-01-03 03:09:24 · 4 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel, she needs to know. We woman, sometimes feel men hide their emotions too much and we don't know how to take them.
Whether you feel it's right and you want to talk to her and hang out with her, or that you don't want to see her any more, she needs to know how you feel.
More than likely when you tell her, you probably will cry, because it's hard to express your deepest feelings without emotions, that doesn't make you any less of a man. It actually makes you stronger than most men, because most will keep all there feelings bottled up until they lash out on the person that they care about.
So sit down and talk to her, tell her how you feel, everything that's going on with you about the situation, she will understand.
2007-01-03 03:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay guy......ever heard of the War of the Roses????
Read it!
It's time to call a treuce and that means both of you go seperate ways right now. You go on with your life and get yourself in order because the door squeeks right now and there is no help in oiling it.
A Man that can not stand on his feet and protect his emotions and indepedence can lose all of that in a matter of seconds over what?????????????
I say it again over what?????????????
What is more important right now than you???????
You are the most important right now not her. If you can;t take care of you then you can;t take care of her...capiche!!
Chill Dude that's my suggestion from pure honesty here.
Give it time. You got nothing but time here and dont' ruch anything.
Good things come to those who wait. FACT
2007-01-03 03:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel. Tell her it is too hard to be just friends. If she has a heart at all she will either leave you alone or take you in and love you the way that you love her.
2007-01-03 03:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude express your feelings to her
2007-01-03 03:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by mickeymousedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋