i love this guy but i cant let him go
2007-01-03 02:59:25 · 20 answers · asked by cowgirltween 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop thinking about the good times, only concentrate on the bad ones. It took me a few weeks of doing this to get over my first love, but it did finally work.
2007-01-03 03:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If You REALLY love someone, but things just arent going to work out for the both of you, You have to admit fault or accept the apology... so that you can forgive and forget, so that you are not holding on to your past.
2007-01-03 11:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leting him go... I let my first love go by being his worst enemy. Sometimes to love someone and let them go, you have to be firm and not let down your guard. ("Can I see you one more time?" "NO!") Sometimes being a little harsh is the easiest way for him to move on.
2007-01-03 11:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by julygirly22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they cant say it (love)then they cant make it with no one jus give a little time tho some take a while to fall in love so spoil him if you will show him the love you feel for him
2007-01-03 11:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So....why do you feel the need to let him go if you love him so? But, if you want to let him go, that's why you have two feet. Just do it!
2007-01-03 11:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, first of all you need time to get over the closness, but true love never die at least right away. you know when we really feel that were in love is when some one wants to break it of.
2007-01-03 11:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by lad yin red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to let him go!!!... Is he bad for you if so honey release him........letting go is one thing but to release is a person is to push him out of your mind, heart, and soul........If he is not good for you are beneath you release him
2007-01-03 11:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by ELDER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me? I switch my focus onto something else. Like making a sandwich, pouring a refreshing cold pint, and tuning into the Football game.
Works for me.
2007-01-03 11:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Rowdy Yayhoot 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if it's unhealthy-Find something else to do, and no contact (unless kids are invlved).
but itf it'snot causing depression or anything, just keep the fond memories and go on with the future...
2007-01-03 11:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things that help the most are time, keeping your mind off of it, keeping yourself busy, and keeping yourself surrounded by supportive friends and family members. But you will get over it.
2007-01-03 11:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋