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2007-01-03 02:36:10 · 31 answers · asked by rufus a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you mean it, tell her you love her. Show her you love her by being kind and considerate but don't let her treat you like a doormat. Spend time together and respect her - she'll know you're trying to make her happy and should therefore be happy. Do silly little things for her, cook her a meal, run her a bath with her favourite bubble bath, rub her feet/back/head etc.
2007-01-03 02:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an area i don't think there is much people can say as no two people are alike. There must be some thing you know she likes that is not too expensive and within your budget.
It could that new restaurant that is opening that she mention or taking her to some museum or some thing etc.........Those are just examples to help your creative imagination run wild as to what you can do to make her happy.
It can some times be some thing as simple as making a New years resolution for 2007 and keeping it. It could be some behavior that you will change and be a better boyfriend. There is no limit on your imagination.
2007-01-03 02:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question its definately the little things that mean so much to girls...as far as what to say; tell her she's beautiful its nice to be reminded of that from time to time; you can tell her how important she is to you; as far as things you can do for her remember your anniversary even if its not a significant one its nice to see that a guy is paying attention, if you've been dating a long time and you know her really well, when you go out to eat order her favorite dish as long as long as you know she always gets the same thing; bring her flowers occasionally to remind her that shes special; if you both are at home watching tv together hold her close and kiss her forehead its a sweet gesture and it makes us feel safe; if she comes home from work and has had a hard day let her vent and remember to take her side and not say too much she'll be over it in ten minutes anyway, hold her hand in the car or walking that never gets old; i don't know if you guys are saying i love you yet or not but my ex used to sqeeze my hand 3 times to stand for i love you if we were someplace that we had to be quiet like a movie or if we were in conversations with other people it was very sweet and unique. if you need any other ideas just ask.
2007-01-03 02:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by tasha1b4u2b_beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like shes depressed and become reliant on you push her out the door with her friends she should come back full of life and wanting you again then also when you go out she daren't complain or you may do the same next time she goes out.Suggest she do a meal once or twice too if she feels shes not needed that can result in apathy and a feeling of unimportance.She might not want to at first you've spoilt her too well but persevere and you will get the girl she once was back and the spark.
2016-05-22 22:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
small little things that can make her smile like a cup of tea in bed in the morning
Once I walked in the house and my boyfriend had connected the PC to the TV and made a big screen saver saying I love you and when i turned the TV on i saw it. that was so sweet. i really loved it
little notes and things if you go out, just do things to remind her you don't take her for granted it doesn't have to be buying stuff. Think of original things that you would do, to make her feel special.
Keep saying thank you for things she does for you it can be easy to take some things for granted.
I always appreciate when my boyf cooks or does something he wouldn't normally do like clean the bathroom for instance.
2007-01-03 02:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It upsets me to think you can't make her happy. She wouldn't be your girlfriend if she didn't want to be with you.
But, little things that make me happy are as follows.....
When my boyfriends cooks my evening meal, but tries to make it special and sets the table all nice with candles.
When he gives me a foot massage.
When he runs me a scented candle lit bath with a glass of chilled wine.
When he buys me something I want without it being my Birthday or a special occasion.
When he tells me I'm the most beautiful woman in the universe (even if I don't think so)
When he leaves little notes for me all around the house to find when he's not there.
It's the little things that us gals seem to like more, all of my friends think so, so don't worry about spending copious amounts of cash, or massive extravagant plans. Think of the little things that will make her smile........................
2007-01-03 02:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bijoukitten26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't things for her all the time or she'll take if for granted. But surprise her once a blue moon by cooking and having alone time. Massage and pay special attention to her and don't expect anything in return. That is ultimate happiness.
2007-01-03 02:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by julygirly22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rufus how sweet! You are on your way to becoming a real man.
A man that is secure enough to care about his gurls feelngs. She is blessed, Thoughtfulness does not have to cost money.
We women love romance and being real. Dont lie, cheat or talk ugly to her. bring her a flower, tell her she's pretty, hold hands,
Relax and enjoy her company and the rest will come naturally! God bless, take care.
2007-01-03 02:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash her feet, hair and hands every now and then.
Do you know what it is like when your standing at the sink with your girl and you wash her hands????????? It sends out a signal more powerful than you can imagine and most people fail to do these things.
Give her a pedicure and manicure.
Comb her hair with a brush when your laying next to her on the couch...trust me I say this from experience...no joking here.......SHE WILL LOVE YOU
It is your love for her that blooms when you do thigns like this. They need it, thats the Glory of Love!!!
2007-01-03 02:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mail her a card. Don't just buy one and hand it to her actually go buy one write something nice in it and mail it.
Flowers-not roses-flowers in a little neat vase. Put it on her doorstep. You can even buy a really neat pot and put like a mini rose bush in it.
Buy her a book of poetry and a book of jokes. Put both of them in a really nice box and tell her how she has brought both love and laughter into your life.
There are candy bars called 100 grand. Buy ten of them put them in a cute paper bag and write on the bag-You are worth a million to me.
There are tons of things that are not outrageously expensive it just takes a little thought
2007-01-03 02:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋