what should i do?

Question

my guy friend at work and i talked about getting together and doing it, but that's the only time that i hear from him is when he wants to do it with me. after awhile i started to get angry and wrote him a note stating that i didn't appreciate being treated that way and that we should remain professionals at work. the thing is that i didn't hear back from him and he hasn't acknowledged that he got my note.

Answer 1

Drop it and don't speak to him again. The guy was just using you. No one deserves that.

Answer 2

He got the note, he's just not responding because all he wanted was sex and he probably thought you were ok with that until the note. So now he doesn't know what to say. I'm sure if you confront him about the note he'll give you some lame response or reason why he hasn't said anything. It's probably best that this is as far as it got. So just be thankful and forget about him, apparently he does not know how tohandle a professional woman. He did you a favor girl.

Answer 3

Why would you even consider having a relationship for that purpose with someone that you work with? Now you have a problem with him and you still have to work with this person. He's not going to acknowlege you because his main purpose either you gave it to him already or now that you're not willing to he doesn't want to be bothered. He didn't want to deal with you in the first place, you basically told him what he wanted to hear and now that that's gone he doesn't want to deal with you on any level. Leave it alone and him. What's going to happen is you're going to keep it up and you're going to be the office gossip. He's going to start talking about you around the office if he hasn't already. Stop leaving notes because now you look like you're chasing and begging him which is given things to show other coworkers. Ignore him! Say nothing to him. When you see him look him in the face but don't say anything. Don't look or appear s if you can't face him but don't chase him either. Once he sees you can't be so bothered he'll approach you. Even then don't give in so easily. He's making you sweat. Hasn't anyone ever told you never let a man see you sweat? Cat and mouse, you should be the mouse not him.

Answer 4

Then you have your answer. He is only interested in you if you want to give him some. Nothing else matters to him and that includes your feelings. It's better to let it go NOW before you give him some and your eyes are WIDE OPEN. Once you give in, you are going to have even more questions and no more answers to what you already know. I hope that makes sense.

A man that is interested in you, will do the work. Let the dog chase the cat, not vice versa!!!

Answer 5

IT IS A NEW YEAR...u have been posting these questions about ur "friend" for the last 6 months...realize that he's not ur friend...just a work mate and that he has a girlfriend and is not interested in you. dont continue to sell urself short...forget him and find someone u can be with and who can be with u in a real relationship.

Answer 6

He most likely DID get the note he just doesn' t know how he should respond or is immature and chooses not to speak to you because you dont want to be what he wants you to be. Or he is offended. Most likely though he doesnt know how to respond.

Answer 7

Talk to him about it first...but he probably thinks thats all you wanted as well, men dont catch feelings like women do when it comes to sex. What did you think he thought if you never really dated him but you just "did it" = friends with benefits. Stop now because you already got your feelings hurt.

Answer 8

Forget him stay away from him and find someone that will want to be with you to have and share fun times together and not just want to hop in to bed with you.

Answer 9

try again..or maybe you would like to bring this issue to him straight and forget about the note passing? if he ignores you or something..then i think you better move on and forget about it..

good luck =)

Answer 10

drop it