After a 2 year Realationship, Shes still the love of my life, How do i make her see this... like i do.?

Question

We have been togather a long time, and unlike alot of couple we have had like no fights or nothing we are extremly good for eachother and close. Like u would think i tell her i love her all the time (not to danm much) and i do things for her and im their for her no matter what, but i dont think that she see just how much i love her and that i still love her as if it was day one, and thats the absolute truth, Im looking for somthing i can do or to show or somthing rather than the old i love you or a massage or somthing, i wana show her that shes still number one, shes still the only one
and that i would die just to see her smile,

ne one got an idea??

To those who told me to propse we are always saying that when were older we probably will get married but considering were stillvery young,

were both still 18 i turn 19 in a month, and i know what people say about not findingng love and such but i have i dont care, but i cant ask her to marry me she would run and her mom would cut of my little man, lol, ive thought many times of asking her and if i were older i would,


lets put it this way

im so sure on our 1 yr i droped 1500 dollars on a promis ring, just the promis ring, its not the money its the point, i wouldnt do ne thing or pay ne price to see that smile,

Answer 1

Propose :)

Answer 2

Well there are several things you can do. Generally when someone suffers from this type of mental illness it is because of some type of physical or sexual abuse from a caregiver (parent) when they were a child. When this happens the victim's view of sexuality becomes warped. Since this is probably the case and since she has communicated that for her sexual activity is indicative of a future marriage relationship it would be best if you ended the sexual aspect of your relationship with her. In a sense it is a form of abuse. She is expecting an emotional connection which is neither present and may never be present. You should encourage her to access the various support agencies in your area for mental health issues. Most medium sized cities and larger have a public mental health agency that will be able to provide support. Help her find a job if she doesn't have one and obtain a HS diploma or GED. Talk with her about what type of training she would like to pursue to prepare for a career. Be sure she understands you plan to finish your education before you consider getting married. Provide her with the type of emotional support she needs and keep your relationship at the level that is commiserate with the appropriate emotional involvement that you can provide.

Answer 3

You could treat you girl a message or breakfast in bed, Take her somewhere that she would like to go like a vacation. If your girl likes surprises then she will like some of these ideas. Because your girlfriend does not know how much love it could be that she is not sure what love is and might not know how to express herself. Sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you love her and she is the only one for you, and that want to something special for her, declar one day of the week whatever your girlfriends name is that day be yours and hers day. If she likes movie's take her to see a movie or rent one. These are just some ideas. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

I'm not getting the thought that you're married to this person based on what you say. You not once mentioned or referred to her as your wife. How about marrying her if you love her so much.

Answer 5

One of lifes rules...you can't make anyone do anything they do not want to do. You can only show them and hope your example is returned. When was the last time she asked you to do something you did not want to do? Next time...don't hesitate...do it.