i've been a total **** and in doing so have hurt the one person i truly cair about! i need a few idias on how i can make it up to him any sugestuons??
2007-01-03 02:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by sarah b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how u feel := )
2007-01-03 02:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you have accepted the fact that you are wrong
That on it's own is a very good starting point on making things right.
the next thing is to show your partner that you truly understand that what you did was wrong and that you understand why he is feeling angry or hurt.
Time here is very important, don't plunge in with an apology and expect it all to be ok. apologize , but wait. give him time to work things out and seperate the bad feeling with what he now sees as an option to forgive.
it does help to talk about things, normaly, but some times depending on personality it is helpful to give space and understanding. good luck.
2007-01-03 04:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tristan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart talk with him and apologize for the hurt you've caused. Then if he'll agree, you both can try to work out the issue together. Otherwise, at the very least you've apologized and that's honorable.
2007-01-03 02:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll take time and patience to rebuild his trust. tell him you are sorry. Ask if you can meet as friends. Tell him you're prepared to take all the time it needs to convince him you're sorry and that until then all you ask is that he'll go on seeing you regularly and platonically. If he loves you he'll forgive you in time, but it could take months or longer for his hurt to heal. You'll need all your courage to do this, but it could be well worth it in the long term.
2007-01-03 02:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo same thing for me if you're a big pride person u let it go or else suck it up and apologies the only thing you can really do
2007-01-03 02:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by mima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you have done wrong ?
Does he want you to make it up to him will he forgive you and allow you to regrow your relationship built on trust love and respect. If so then you can start thinking of ways to please him.
2007-01-03 02:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Joanne A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hot sweaty make up sex usually does the trick for me.
2007-01-03 02:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by gunsmoke_70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take him out to dinner and back to your place for dessert and do whatever he wants
2007-01-03 02:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to dinner.offer him sex and give him oral.he will be pleased and will forgive you . I assure
2007-01-03 06:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by emperor_cyrus77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a BJ and lots of sex....He will forgive you....
2007-01-03 02:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say sorry and offer to give him oral.
2007-01-03 02:42:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋