My boyfriend is kind of working on not being abusive toward to me. He has a drug problem and can't drink becuz of the drug problem.
We moved from a city with the population of 5 million people to a stupid boring city of 1 million people.
Are there any ideas of things we can do for fun?
2007-01-03 01:48:40 · 4 answers · asked by phatguyanesegurl 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
yes, you can leave him and protect yourself. you are more important than the hope that he might change.
2007-01-03 02:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Angry Daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's "kind of working on not being abusive"?!!? This part of your post is what leads to the paint-ball post above. Have you been to Al-Anon? You need a guy who doesn't have a drug problem and who doesn't need to kind of work on not being abusive toward you. But here are some things YOU can do for fun -- without him.
1. Make some friends at the Al-Anon meeting and go out to lunch with them.
2. Take a class at the community college on a topic that interests YOU.
3. Go for a walk in a public park with friends.
4. If you have any spiritual beliefs, go to your local church or synagogue, meet people, and go out to coffee or go shopping or to a movie or rent a video.
What do these things have in common? No boyfriend kind of working on not being abusive. And you'll make other friends. Especially women friends who can tell you to leave a relationship with no future.
2007-01-03 11:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by rcpeabody1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tie him to a chair and shoot him with paint balls for a few hours. (Less mess if you do this outdoors)
2007-01-03 10:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what u call "fun." lol
2007-01-03 12:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jonathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋