2007-01-03 01:40:03 · 14 answers · asked by gurmeet s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You can't help much except talking her parents to agree. if they don't dear life doesn't end at it. move on you'll find someone much better. The one who's really made for you. All the best !
2007-01-03 04:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not the end of our life, but, the beginning of the next phase of one's life. Attraction remains only for a few months after marriage and then the boredom starts creeping in slowly and steadily.
Day to day problems will start nagging both and lead to irritations. Regular communication with the respective parents or siblings would ease the situation and bring both of u back on rails for the next episode. So, it means, both of you should seek the acceptance of the respective parents before tieing the knot.
After marriage, the social life starts and both of you need the parents and relatives on both sides. Friends may stay with you in the beginning, but, if any void develops between you, they will slowly move away and leave you fighting.
If parents are there, they will interfere and sort out the matter. Therefore, dear friend, better speak to her and request her to arrange for an appointment with her parents. Meet them and explain your view point sincerely and truly.
Her parents can judge you better than you yourself and may agree with your wish or suggest you why they can not agree. Think it over again , have a couple of more meetings with them and decide based on the talks. Observe, patience and communicate with absolute steady state of mind than emotional, because, when u r emotional you would make more mistakes and end up in failure!
Whatever happens at the end, take it for granted that 'All that happens is for your good!" and go ahead without any regret!
Wish you all the best!
2007-01-03 10:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shooting stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don´t you ask your parents to help you?
They can meet her parents and ask her family.
sometimes older people need to be treated like that, because they are used to that sort of things even nowadays.
Maybe her family thinks that you´re not good enough for her so you should not waist your time with crying over your bad luck, what you have to do is prove her family that you would be an excellent husband for their daughter.
You´ve been dating with her, did something strange happen which annoyed her or her family???
2007-01-03 13:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont marry her than it is best for u you never know there must be much beutifull girl than her out there in the future for u. leave her alone just be as friends cos u know wot girls parents be like don't u come on chat than i will tell u wot else to do wot ever u ask my id is angel_moon_moon@yahoo.co.uk i gotta go 2 my lessons i am in skool now the bell has gone
2007-01-05 08:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents don't agree about what? You dating her? If you are old enough to think about marriage than you two are old enough to do things without having to worry about her family. I did that with my family and my parents now love my fiancee. Just have faith in your relationship.
2007-01-03 09:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one need courage to love u ask ur gf to be bold and convey her and if possible u try to talk with her parents to make it success.
now a days parents ar understanding and accepting the love if they think it is good
2007-01-03 10:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by niva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ask her why her parents wont, or ask her to talk to her parents or give her parents a really good impression
2007-01-03 10:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...jst talk to her yaar...make things cleared out... first of all convince her and your parents...and i think then ur parents can go n talk to her...mite be her parents rnt sure abt u...i mean they dont knw who u are, abt ur family....there may b million q in her parents mind...clear them out..n talk to her.... n even if thngs dont work....dont thnk thts the end yaar...please...loving is also respecting others decision..so first of all..u talk to her...thn ur parents...n then hers...simple...hmmm...well all the best :) !!!!!
2007-01-03 11:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first confident yourself.because this your life .so keep strength of u r love and lover .tell your background of finance and future life planaing.definitely our parents agree.god helps to u.and invite me to u r marriage....................!
2007-01-04 01:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by sriram m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents. let them think about u.
2007-01-03 09:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by archee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋