My cousin Raj who is 19 and I moved in together about 2 months ago. We share an apartment. I am 24 and just graduated from college. He is in school and working part time. Anyway, in the last few weeks my cousin Raj has been walking around in his underwear which kind of creeped me out at first but then I got used to it. I usually am always wearing my nightie or fully clothed when I am with him. He must have saw that I dont care much about it and then started walking nude from his bedroom to the kitchen to get something to drink or to throw something away. Again, I was creeped out but he has always been like a little brother. He then asked me if I mind that he is nude, and I said no as long as it isn't all the time. Well, now I am worried. The other day he came into the living room naked while I was watching tv. He started glancing at the television and then I noticed he slowly started to get an erection which stayed at 3.5 inches for about 10 minutes. It was hard not to see it. Help?
2007-01-03 01:18:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Ok, I think your cousin may just do that because he wants you to be jeaulous or something. (Eww). The best thing to do is tell him that its bothering you and ask him to please stop. If he gets angret saying that you said it was o.k. just give him some space and he should stop! Hope I helped!!
2007-01-03 01:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Raj, I changed my mind. I thought I could handle you running around in the buff, but it's really starting to creep me out.
I'd appreciate it if you'd wear some pants around the house from now on." and just leave it at that. If this is for real, it's waaaay weird, anyway. Are you sure this kid is screwed together tight?
If he's getting a woody in front of you, he sounds like a classic exhibitionist. Seriously. A flasher. I'd be a little worried, personally.
Cave
2007-01-03 04:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by caveman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things straight. Brother or no brother, if you dont like it, you should have objected to it the first instance. Or, if you think it is alright, then leave it to circumstance to take its course. For a man his age, any **** will do, and by the look of it, you have stopped appearing to him as his cousin. Since i assume that both of you have parents, i have an urge not to believe this story, since no Indian parent would leave a young boy and a girl together. You would have to be sick to say that you didnt mind him being nude. As if waiting for him to ask you to be nude as well. Since your eyes cannot actually seem to measure up a man, you better start holding it to feel. I would suggest you to come out of your dreams and think something better. Or if it is by a quirk of fate that you are experiencing this, better enjoy it since you will not get this opportunity once again in your life.
2007-01-03 01:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Alag N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be a little slow on the up-take, sister. There's only one reason a naked man with an erection approaches a woman, clothed or not.
Either set some boundaries, or better still, tell him to find somewhere else to live. If you don't, something might happen that will effect the rest of your life.
2007-01-03 01:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-29 21:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more honest - he's hot for you and you know it. Have sex with him or tell him to get dressed. And by the way, everyone thinks you two are having sex anyway, since you live together, so your reputation isn't a concern.
2007-01-03 02:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you approach him you need to do it vewy vewy carefully. Don't want to get poked. Yuck. Ok so You tell him "Hey I know we're friends and family but we are NOT from Kentucky and this is NOT going to happen!! Put your clothes on or I'll punch you in you naked goodies!!" and if it doesn't at least go down after that you might want to consider following through.
2007-01-03 01:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy him some lounge pants and tell him that walking around nude with your cousin there is not proper, and no one needs to see his whopping three and a half inches. That's gross.
2007-01-03 01:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him straight out that if he does't start dressing properly you two are going to have some problems. if he objects against this then just say, "Well, from now on I'm not going to help you with anything until you get some sense into your noggin!"
2007-01-03 04:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl? If not, punch him out, then throw him out.He'll never tell the family why you did it.I think he tested the waters with the undies, then took it too far---SPEAK Up.That is no show of respect...If you are female--tell his Mother...She'll handle mister short dong.....
2007-01-03 05:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋