U may not belif dis but~ we broke up juz bcuz of a lame reason but its important between us! we both love each other so much.. we've spend alot times together.. he is sweet.. kind.. helpful..everytin! he keep helpin me wif my stuff.. projects.. we owez hang out 2getha.. he owez b thr 4 me whn i nit him.. n i owez b thr for him too..but..we broke up bcuz he nits 2 study n concentrate cuz his exams is gettin nearer!!! if i care n love him.. i shud support him and let him go..rite or wrong?i dun wan take away his attention from studies..cuz..i noe he want this so bad! but after his exams..will he still wanna go out wif me?now we ar juz frens!sobx..he told me b4 by text msg-ing that..i deserve a better guy..n he is not the guy im lookin for..n keep sayin sorry.. but..i onli want him!!! n now...i nit 2 wait 7 more month till he finiz his studies n exams! do u think he can still except me back??? do u tink he still wanna go out wif me again? Or we dun hv tht chance?
2007-01-03 00:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by loveubabyblack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That question made my eyes bleed, and I only got past the first few lines
2007-01-03 00:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spelling abilities aside, it sounds like you've got a real problem... but a very common one. I suggest stepping back and giving yourself some space for awhile. There is no hurry to get back with someone that doesn't really want a relationship. Take some time to rediscover yourself. Do some things that you love to do. Hang out with your friends. Have some fun! Give it a month, and you will have a new perspective. If he is interested in you, he will come to you. If not, then it is time to move on! There are lots of fish in the sea, and it is not worth wasting your life trying to make a lost cause work. Good luck!
2007-01-03 00:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you both truely love each other nothing will keep you apart. If he needs to study for exams then give him the space. You sound as though you are both very much in love so give it time occasionaly (Once a week) make contact see how he is getting on and if you can help, then leave him to it. When he has finished he studying tell him exactly how you feel, he will then know you care about him enough to give him the space he needs when he wants it but still knows you there for him the background.
2007-01-03 00:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by amystar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not interested anymore.
Buuuuuut you could always go back to him. Just respect his studies. Did you break up because you felt that he is not giving you as much attention as you would like? Because most likely, after he's done his studies, he could be working and stuff... so he might be busier. Leave him alone, and go look for someone else. There are other men out there who carry have the 'sweet, kind and more' package.
HAve yo uconsidered that maybe you're not the girl for him?
2007-01-03 00:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question was really hard to read, so hopefully I've interpreted it properly to answer it properly. The fact that he said 'you deserve a better guy and he's not the guy you are looking for' jumped out at me. It seems to me that he's made up his mind that he doesnt want to continue the relationship and the studying part is an excuse to break up. I know it's really hard for you at the moment, but try and move on, it will get easier as time goes on.
2007-01-03 00:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lochie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats kinda what my ex said to me..
that he needed to focus more on school and stuff,
if i were u id just tell him hoe much u still love him and that u wanna go back out with him and that u are there for him and that u support his studies 100%. and that you wanna go out with him but u dont need to hang out with him 24-7.
2007-01-03 01:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that he is using his studies as an excuse to not be with you it really isn't the studying. he just doesn't want to be with you. now if you were a little more literate and could freaking spell maybe he'd want to be with you.
2007-01-03 00:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not carry her to blame for what exceeded off with you ex bf. provide her the earnings of the doubt except she aspects reason to not have faith her. I advise i does not be telling each and every thing and something yet as far as you may tell she went in the path of the comparable element and you men could in all probability advance an exceptionally large friendship because of the fact of it. Your ex is the asshole and you may not blame her for what exceeded off. Like I pronounced, except she aspects a reason to be upset or mad at her... be acquaintances!
2016-10-19 09:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went throught sumthing just like that and well there's nothing you can do it's really up to him but if you love that much then keep trying but personaly i think if you guys were meant to be then'll you guys will be together
2007-01-03 00:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Triple_X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was right to dump you because you can't really help him with his studies. That's apparent from your question. Damned! Learn how to spell! I mean... Damned!
2007-01-03 00:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋