2007-01-03 00:34:49 · 28 answers · asked by buffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would you know what he's ready fro you may be his mum but you don't know him intimatley.
The trouble with parents theses dyas is u worry to much just like us kids learn form their own mistakes and if u dont let them they'll just learn an even harder lesson.
Trust him if he gets hurt your there for him but the last thing he wnats to hear is i told you so...
Remember what it's like to be his age.
At least his girlfriend is older girls mature quicker than boys anyway this shud put ur mind at rest a little bit.
At least it's not him thats older that girls parents would be feeling alot worse than u!
2007-01-03 00:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OK your son has a older gfriend OK is he shy if yes then it a good think your son will brake it OK because of presser but if not then you got problem
2007-01-03 00:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know well that girl?Because it is bad if you don't like her only because it's older then your son.It is possible that she is a nice,lovely woman and loves your son truly.Isn't that more important ?How old is your son?Are you sure he can't decide by himself what is best for him?I know-you are mother,you are worry but let him to be free,to do what he want.And is better to speak with him for this girl,to hear what is she like,what are him planes and so on.
2007-01-03 00:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
lol :D Yeah, what's the question? My opinion on this is that it's your son's business and maybe you should just talk to him about it. Or if he's not ready for it, he will learn his lesson soon. How old is he and how old is his girlfriend? If he's like 16, he can take care of himself and you shouldn't worry. Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-03 00:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how much older is the gf, how old is your son, you need to give us something we can answer, thats what its all about, next time supply more info, and we can help you!
Maybe just see how things go between them, give him a chance to experiment, thats how we get through life, we learn by our mistakes.
2007-01-03 00:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by trixyt1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much older she is then him but if they are of age it really isn't up to you. You could try and talk to your son about how you feel but don't make a big thing out of it.
2007-01-03 00:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to give you advice if you were actually asking a question. My question is how old are you? It doens't seem that you're old enough yourself if you can't see that you made a statement but put a "?" at the end of it. So Buffy what's your question that you want the general public to help you with?
2007-01-03 00:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i know about a relationship is that luv is between two people who luv each other. There is no age limit to luv i think if two people are in luv age must be disregarded. So i think basically that if your son is in luv then he is ready for it. Caroline
2007-01-03 00:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by nakasango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your son? I had at 25 year old gf when i was 18! I learned alot about life that i didnt already know before i met her. Sorry if i am rude, but i think that you should let him make his own mistakes in life. Its good for you to be there and support him, but dont try and make his decisions for him! If you keep making decisions for him. My mother tried to make my decisions for me, and it eventually started pushing me away. Chill out and trust that he make smart decisions.
2007-01-03 00:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh boy, yeah let me guess this older lady has been married before, and she has kids. Well theres nothing you can do. Remember this lady is sleeping with him, kind of hard to break that kind of bond. He has to learn. All she is doing is feeling young again.
2007-01-03 00:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by brandley_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋