Honestly,,,,their isn't too much you can say,,, she has to deal with her emotions and feelings within herself,,,,she has to find that strength, to move on, and let it go,,,and when it is time,,,she will,,,,being hurt in any aspect,,,is a painful thing,,,and it takes time to heal,,,,it is a very deep wound to the heart and soul,,,and sometimes,,,it seems like it takes forever to heal,,,and just when we think we are over it,,,,we hear a song, or see a movie that brings it all back,,,,
my advice to you is this,,,,let her know that everything in life happens for a reason,,,and it just wasn't meant to be,,,,that someone up above has something better in store for her,,,,that when she does find that true love,,,that she will never be sad again,,,,that saying "love hurts" I don't believe is TRUE,,,,,I think it is a bunch of bull crap,,,why on earth would someone that truly loved you,,,,want to make you sad,,,make you cry,,, hurt you,,,they wouldn't if they loved you,,,,so maybe what you thought was love really wasn't love,,,because when you do find love,,,,,you will not be sad,,,it will be like being in a crowded room,,,and the only two people you can hear breathing is you and him/her,,,,,and an unexplainable understanding,,,,that you can sit together for hours at a time,,,and know in each others hearts and minds that you are both content and happy,,,,WITHOUT SAYING A WORD,,,,THAT IS LOVE,,,,AND IT IS FELT FROM BOTH SIDES,,,,NOT JUST ONE SIDE LIKE YOUR FRIENDS,,,,,
it will get better with time,,,,and ,,,,she will let it go,,,, just be their for her and listen,,,and give her reassuring affection,,,,,don't force her to move on until she says it herself,,,,
I WISH YOU LUCK,,,AND YOUR FRIEND,,,THINGS WILL GET BETTER,,,AND YOU WILL SEE THAT ONE DAY,,,,WHEN YOU FIND TRUE LOVE,,,,YOU WILL NO LONGER BE SAD,,,,BUT LOOK BACK AND SAY,,,,WHY DID I FEEL SO SAD OVER SUCH A JERK,,,,,(for your friend).
I hope i helped a little bit,,,,
DAPHNE
2007-01-03 00:45:46
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