I am 14 never had a boyfriend, and never been kissed. But I haven't even slow danced with a boy, I think that problem is because I never go to the dances because none of my friends do and I hear they are very lame. But out of all of that stuff I listed up there is there something wrong with me?
2007-01-03 00:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing is wrong, waiting is good, don't rush things, when it happens it will be special, don't do it because you feel everyone else is
2007-01-03 00:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by donnango 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Dances are simply social gatherings, and I remember when I was your age - I used to go to the dances and had to work up the nerve to ask a girl to dance. Dances are simply a way for you to learn how to interact with other people and develop social skills. Most teenagers don't even know HOW to dance, and you simple stand there and rock back and forth with the music. Your friends probably say the dances are lame because they don't know how to dance or are afraid of going and not being asked to dance. If you want to go, go ahead and go to the dance... If anything, have your friends go with you, and you'll all have a good time watching everyone else.
2007-01-03 00:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by McB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Just take it slow you are only 14 years old and you have your whole life ahead of you. Slow dancing with a guy is easy, and it comes naturally so don't panic. You may think that you have to plan ahead of time on how to do all this, but when the time comes your body already knows what to do. Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-03 00:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the rest of your life to slow dance, don't sweat. Pls you don't want to just do it with a random guy, you should try to make it special. Also when you do get maybe another boyfriend just go some place put on slow music and dance. thats not lame like the middle school dances to
2007-01-03 00:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you at all, It is a very mature thing to go at your own speed and find out these things in your own time not bow to peer pressure.
BTW slow dancing is only great in films. In reality guys your age have no sense of rhythym and usually stand all over your feet and use it as a not too discreet way to grab your a$$. It is only romantic when it stops being something to brag to their mates about. Much the same as kissing...
2007-01-03 00:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No suga' there is nothing wrong with you. You ARE 14! Give it some time, you will have your first dance and first kiss.
2007-01-03 01:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just 14 and there is plenty of time ahead. Do not let this bug you , time will take care. All the best
2007-01-03 00:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋