i have a friend named "Amanda" she's 14 years old, i have 16 years old, we talk in the "msn" almost everyday, we been talking to eachother since more than 5 months ago, we are great friends, but i told her that i feel something special for her like "LOVE" and i know i feel that, she told me that she like me too but she doesn't want nothing serious with me, she told me "that doesn't mean i stop loving you". after a few days later we stoped talking to eachother that much, now everytime we talk we always fight, we used to put webcams now we don't, she said i became two-faced, she wants me to be like the sweet arturo that i was b4 with her, she be saying "what you want from me" but i don't know what i did wrong, i feel i'm the same, is like she doesn't trust me and she never did, "that's what i think" now i'm always sad because of her i... just don't know what to do : (
2007-01-03 00:20:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey,
Ya'll need to talk in person, because talking over MSN is impersonal and does not mean that ya'll have a relationship. Just talk to her about this, but she prolly doesn't feel the same thing for you because ya'll don't just hang out, off of msn.
Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-03 00:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day she's a 14 year old kid. You shouldnt be talking about love or anything else with someone so young. It could be taken a number of ways.
Besides, if she's being off with you then just stop trying. You're wasting your time and energy by the sounds of it. Let her go and find someone your own age to be friends with
2007-01-03 08:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably overwhelmed her a bit. She was obviously just looking for a friend. She is only 14 so you can't expect her to have mature feelings. Just go back to chatting and apologise if you came on too much for her. I think you need to look for love in the right place not just over the internet.
2007-01-03 08:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she loves you but doesnt trust you thats why she doesnt want anything serious with you.All you have to do is get her to win your trust and never stop loving her. Here are some tips to win her
1.Be nice to her.
2.Be the man you used to be.
3.Say nice and lovely words whenever you are with her
4.Always forgive her when she wrongs you without her appologising to you.
5.when you tell her you love her today,give her some time like a month or two before you repeat yourself and most of all
6.love her for who she is and be honest to her.Let her know how you feel about her.
you can mail me anthonymoroh@yahoo.com and i will tell you more.
2007-01-03 08:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by owen4chinyere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hymen been is selfish so if you stop talking to her she'll send you tons of e-mails then you'll now she really love you and you make her happy and she'll come back better than before but if she make you sad then just leave her
2007-01-03 08:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, go out and meet new people and enjoy your independence save long term relationships for later.
2007-01-03 08:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the net your not really close you can talk about anything and don't have to worry, your talking about getting close you scared her....
2007-01-03 08:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for change
2007-01-03 08:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just forget her... if u r becoming attracted towards her, then just stop talking to her...
2007-01-03 08:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by voldemort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋