Ladies: Do you ever make the first move on a guy?

Answer 1

Of course! If i c a guy i like the look of a guy i'll approach him no problem at all. Why not? Life's too short to worry about being turned down or what ppl think! Go 4 it n regret nothing x x

Answer 2

From a guys point of view let me tell you we absolutely love it when girls approach us.

The whole process of making the first move is usually down to the guy, we feel a HUGE amount of pressure the second we walk into a club even if we're not looking for someone.

From a females point of view it's the best thing to do, you get the guy you want, he suddenly feels fantastic and will be so happy you'll feel good to.
Some girls can be really nasty when approached and rip guys to pieces, that almost never happens with men.
Most guys will be a gentleman and say no thanks or some other excuse to make it easier, i've seen girls devastate many guys who after plucking up courage go over and get shot to pieces in front of a crowd of girlfriends all laughing.

Tell all your friends, tell every female you ever meet, make the first move, get the man you want before someone else moves in and everyone has a perfect night.

Answer 3

Hey,
Umm...I don't think so. Normally we will wait around for a guy to make the move. For example, we won't ask a guy out we will wait for him, unless the girl is desperate. Usually the guy should initiate the move and the girl will either go along with it if she is comfortable or she wont.
Good Luck! ;)

Answer 4

I don't think I ever have, no.
I've made the first move on a lady however :)

My chasing days are over now - if someone wants me, they have to make the moves :)
I do drop hints however, which is why its always good to listen :)

Answer 5

Much agreed with alphacenturi. Guys have pressure all the time cause we're supposed to move. And unluckily for you girls, the nice decent guys are often the ones that get bummed out for this.

If girls moved, it would be a win-win situation for all.

Answer 6

Yes I made the first move on my partner. It was the first time I had ever done it, but when I saw him I knew I had to have him..

... Now we are happy engaged, living togther, and getting married in 2008

... GO on girls, whats the worse that could happen?!

Answer 7

yeh agree with "alphacenturi" too. countless number of times have i witnessed guys getting slaughtered seconds after approaching a lady. It is very hard for the decent guys to approach ladies, its just pure shyness and fear of rejection. some men find it easy (most likely because they just want abit of fun and aint serious).

agree also with its a win-win situation if a lady approaches a guy. if someone did that to me, then i know theres going to be a smile on my face for days, probably enjoy myself with her too.

ladies getting chatting, find your perfect guy..!

Answer 8

Honestly, I don't think their is anything wrong with making the first move on a guy, if you like them,,,,,I would rather put myself out their , then wonder ,,,, (what if???) ya know, and I think some guys like that,,,they like to know a girl is sure about what she wants, and knows how to go about getting it,,,,and I think it is a turn on sometimes,,,,but as long as you don't act trashy,,,then ya I say go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!



thanks,
DAPHNE

Answer 9

I am a women and yes i have made first moves on guys before. I am not shy at all and I usually tell it how it is. Sometimes guys are shy and women have to be the bold one

Answer 10

yes of course but only if u feel very comfortable.. there is no point for tryin to b someone ur not.. if u really lik the guy go for it!! and certainly u shud get places if u show u are interested