I am feeling really low at the moment with my exams, family and friends getting really stressed, and I just wanted to know would any of you change if you still had not got a boyfriend when you were in your last year of high school?
2007-01-02 23:59:21 · 18 answers · asked by UGLYSWAN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm actually in the last month of high school and my last relationship ended about 3 weeks ago. Sure I'm still a tiny bit heartbroken and I sort of wish I had a boyfriend but I have enough on my plate.
When you're about to graduate high school, I don't see why having a boyfriend should be a top priority, college or whatever it is that you plan to do afterwards should be.
2007-01-03 00:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I didn't have a boyfriend when I got out of high school...
seriously. I didn't have a girlfriend either. it's not a big deal. Don't look at this romance thing as something that has a timetable.
And changing your personality is not an easy thing to do. Unless you specifically want to be sexually active. But don't do that just to get friends or be popular, that's not the way. have sex because YOU want to have sex, not for other reasons. otherwise you'll regret it.
Having sex for the enjoyment of the sex act alone is the right reason. Don't do it to try to gain acceptance, that does not work.
Find a guy that you like in a friendship way (not a "boyfriend way"), but don't open yourself up to him toooo much. just enough to let him know what you want.
There is a difference between a freind with benefits and a lover.
but don't ever change yourself to meet someone elses expectations, that never works.
good luck.
tom
2007-01-03 00:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change for someone else! You are who you are and if the guys in your school can't appreciate that its their loss. Just think of it this way: in a few months you'll be in college with loads more people than in your high school, and you will find someone who's right for you there. Changing who you are just to get a guy is basically saying you're not worth anything unless a boy wants it, which is rubbish. Be you, have fun with your friends enjoy being single without the pressures and worries of growing up and men!
2007-01-03 00:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Audiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are not worth it. I had a boyfriend in highschool and he cheated on me when we left for college. I got another boyfriend. He cheated too. So did the next one.
I wish now that I had spent more time building friendships that I could keep. Instead, I have one close friend from college that I stay in touch with and all these loser ex-bfs.
Or, I could have spent more time studying. That would have been even better. Then it would not have taken me 17 quarters to graduate.
2007-01-03 00:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by ssc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it.
Do as well as you can in your exams and get into a good college. When you are in college, get involved in the social side of things - go to parties, and join a club, get onto the college blogs/boards and that will allow you to meet people. You will get a boyfriend soon enough.
And why are you so worried about it in highschool? you are still young and have plenty of time ahead of you to find the right guy.
2007-01-03 00:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was in high school I valued my studies and graduation more than I did the always having to have a boyfriend. After graduation, you have the rest of your life to have boyfriends. Finishing school should be your highest priority now, not worrying about having a boyfriend.
2007-01-03 00:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let everything comes naturally, if love is waiting at your door step, you will know when to open the door. Most probably you are experiencing peer pressure. It's alright not to have a boyfriend at this point of time, keep your focus on the greater things in life.
2007-01-03 00:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by tea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You have plenty of time for a relationship & all of the dramas that go with it.
Be happy that you are just about out of high school and onto a new and exciting future.
2007-01-03 00:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a boy friend isnt a sloution for that baby. so just sit around and think of it. u cant link this up to a bfriend..
cnange in the sense??? wht do u wanna change.. u cant give up ur principles becoz u don hv bfriends.. be yourself. u will get some day the guy of ur choice.. all da best. do well
2007-01-03 00:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by masculine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl boyfrnds r not all tat life has to offer . get straight on with life .u have to take care of ur dad nd mom any boyfrnd lackin problem can get u depresed and then u depress ur prents . as for me i would never change not even if i dont have a boyfrnd at colledge level
all the best
2007-01-03 00:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by varsha_2414 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋