and during these two months, she prefers to be reached only by phone and nothing else. says she is still in love, however this is not enough. how is a man in love supposed to carry on without seeing the loved one's face? god I'm desperate...
2007-01-02 23:45:57 · 33 answers · asked by caliban the taliban 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to take 3 months
2007-01-03 01:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset. A two month break? What on God's green earth is this child thing of? Something is up man! It just don't add up if you ask me. Kinda like sleeping in the same bed for a month straight without being intimate in any way shape or form. I think she is trying to distance herself from you to be honest. She could be feeling something for you and is afraid of what she's feeling as well. The sad thing is that she's also setting you up. Suppose you met someone or did something with another individule. Who would be to blame? Pray because what she does in the dark will come to light. It's in the book of Matthew
2007-01-02 23:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants a break from you so she can be with someone else and not feel guilty about cheating on you.
She will try out another guy, and if she thinks you are better, she will go back to you.
What you need to ask yourself is - Can you handle being this guy that she doesn't see as good enough? Can you be the guy that she has "breaks" from every now and then to try out other guys? Can you be the guy that the girl treats like a second choice, or as a fall back option?
2007-01-02 23:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is feeling smothered by your relationship. Give her space, if she love's you she will come back and it'll be alot faster than two months. Just ask her if you are allowed to date during this two months? If she says yes, then date other people. She will be. If she says no, then maybe she just wants some time to sort out her emotions. Respect the no if you love her, because, if you start dating and it wasn't agreed to by the both of you. Then all your doing is adding more problems to a problematic situation.
2007-01-02 23:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by david419_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pretty ticked off...
How I would personally handle the situation would be to talk to her (did you do anything wrong or questionable?). Ask her her reasons for the break, then decide if it sounds legitimate...
I would probably tell her its OK, but not to expect me to wait around for her till the end of time... You have to stand your ground of this one. Its OK to ask for some space if you guys are always together... But a break... Nah, that's crap!!!
If you truly love someone, you don't need a break... Unless something between you guys has happened that she needs to think about...regardless, two months is a long time...
I would start thinking about moving on...
Good luck...
2007-01-02 23:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is moving on but she needs you around just in case what she got going on doesn't work out. You may have to close this relationship out just because if she does come back she may want to have another 2 month break if she finds someone more interesting than you. You should get with her and have her say honestly what she has going on and if there is a future with you. Right now she is doing you wrong.
2007-01-02 23:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just not that into you; great to accept that you love someone but do you want to be in a relationship where she doesn't love you back ? A man needs to accept what someone is saying and move on; this isn't the right one b/c it is not happening; you can't force love and how can you love this person that hasn't been giving you back; do you need so little that you are willing to give up yourself, time, space in your heart that this is acceptable to you; she has tried to give you an easy message; hear it loud and clear ; invest in yourself and you will find that someone who is into you! Don't waste time on lost love - move on - it is the best for all concerned - good luck
2007-01-02 23:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by sml 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. i think that she wants a break so that she can see other people, the reason she wants a so called "2 month break" is so that she can string you along and keep you on the side just in case she doesnt find anyone else. dont allow her to treat you this way, dont allow her to keep you on the side, hoping you guys get bak together, and then break your heart even more. this is honestly what this situation sounds like to me. i think you should leave her first. maybe one day she'll wake up and realize that she made a mistake if she doesnt then you werent even meant to be. hope you feel better, be strong. good luck.
2007-01-03 00:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
You say you're desperate...And to be honest there is nothing more unnapealing to a female than a desperate, weak male.
If she knows she can walk all over you, she will! Human nature (obviously doesn't apply to everyone though).
If she won't see you face to face, tell her to forget it!
You're not getting what you deserve from the relationship.
2007-01-03 00:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u really love her then u sud respect her wishes as long as she has assured u there will b no other men and u trust her. at the end of the day these 2 months cud save ur relationship wud u rather b away from her for 2 mnths or the rest of ur life? i hope it goes well babe xx
2007-01-03 00:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, man. She's cheating. A break doesn't constitute not seeing the other person, unless she's worried that the other person is going to see her with someone else.
Use this two months to get over her (somewhat), and find someone who will treat you right.
2007-01-02 23:50:14 · answer #11 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋