i still love my ex, but we are still hanging out together.
but he wants to be just friends now.
also he still tells me that he loves me. but doesnt want a relationship.
how do you stop loving him, when you know you cant love him that way.
2007-01-02 23:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey,
Well, here is a list of things that usually work to fall out of love with someone:
#1: Stop hanging out with them (until you have lost ur feelings for them)
#2: Go on dates and meet new people
#3: Think of everything you hate about him (lol :D I always do this one and it really helps)
#4: Think about the fact that he told u he loves u, but doesn't want a relationship (that's pretty stupid and idiotic of him, so that is good enough reason to move on)
lol :D You should just tell yourself you hate him because what kind of person loves someone, but doesn't want to go out with them. Hmm....very wierd! lol :D Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-02 23:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just hit a switch and turn off your love for someone. As you said, you are still hanging out as friends, so you are bound to have feelings to wards him in that respect.
If you feel that strongly about reducing your 'love' you have, then I suggest that you stop or reduce the amount of time you are spending with him.
As soon as you find someone new, your feelings will disappear! But as long as you are 'hanging' out with your ex there is little chance of that happening x
2007-01-02 23:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get over your ex-boyfriend, then it's probably best if you stop hanging out with him. It's hard to move on if you have a constant reminder of the person you love. If you really want to remain friends with him, then try being his friend after you really are over him. I know it's probably hard to do, but if it was meant to be, then he'll come back to you when he is ready for a relationship.
2007-01-02 23:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in your boat right now. I have no answers for you.
There's no quick fix. If you want him in your life, you have to be willing to deal. If you can't deal, then you need to get him out of your life.
2007-01-02 23:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by drutheta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you have to wait for him or just be friends... i guess yours is a berry usual yet hard problem but... i don't think i know the answer but i guess waiting for him is a good one
2007-01-02 23:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by -arika- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋