my ex said he felt he cudnt talk to me i told him he can, he said he doesnt belive me, there have been no problems before but he ended it when he was in a mood and iv not heard since.
2007-01-02 23:20:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... can he? Think back to previous discussions... How did you react to them? Did you interrupt him when he was talking? Did you cut him off a lot? Has there been problems before but you didn't notice them? Has he tried to talk to you before about something that he wanted to talk about but you didn't? Cuz if you did listen to him, would let him finish talking about things you didn't want to talk about, etc., then he could just be using that as an excuse just to dump you without having to tell you the real reason, whatever that may be.
2007-01-02 23:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by Stinging Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds depressed and is trying to "bring down" his surroundings.
Stop wasting your time on him and meet someone sensible.
This guy is fishing for an argument or is a "wind-up merchant" and will always find something to moan about.
Do you deserve better?
I also agree with Vzhnri. Beware of people who say: "That's just the way I am" or those who refuse to "change". The very nature of life itself is change.
2007-01-03 07:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there may have been other reasons than his mood that he ended it for but he must have felt he couldn't talk about them to you. I think you should just accept that it is over. For a relationship to work there needs to be open and honest communication.
2007-01-03 07:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We mean what we say..... We can take alot.... But when we reach breaking point..... Thats it....
I wont talk to any of my EX's .....Whats the point i dont want a relationship with them..... And it doesnt look good to a new girl if your EX's is hanging around like a bad smell......
2007-01-03 07:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for people who refuse to change. While they act like its a condition most times its a weapon and if you can have this person out of your life, so much the better.
2007-01-03 07:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men do change there minds after this is comming frm me tho well i say i aint gonna chat 2 some people it normally changes
2007-01-03 09:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get over it. I always get an idea in my head until my girlfriend tells me some t hing different
2007-01-03 07:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he couldn't communicate his honest feelings to you. It was his way of telling you that he was being true to himself..and probably you are better for it. Move on, sweetie.
2007-01-03 07:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately they are sometimes too stubborn but when they realise what they have lost they may suddenly be able to change their mind!
2007-01-03 07:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mostly we stick to whats lodged in there. thats why we are men. If it sounds good the first time around, we do it. when we relised we were wrong, we are still right. even though we know, that u know we know, that we are wrong but we know that you know we are right. even when we are wrong.
2007-01-03 07:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Saffa_Boy_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋