I love some one very much but she loves another one, Now what i have to do ?

Question

I cant live without her

Answer 1

CHANGE THE FEELING OF YOUR MIND FOR HER. THERE IS NOTHING YOU ARE GAINING. DIVERT YOUR MIND FOR SOMEONE ELSE.

Answer 2

All this talk about true love and getting it is a whole lot of nonsense. If you love somebody there is no hard and fast rule that the same person has to return your love. You never know someone else other than this girl may be feeling the same way about you. So just forget this episode and move ahead. For doing this you need to engage yourself in different activities so that you dont keep thinking about her. You may meet other friends and then your life may change course and turn out to be even better than you imagined. Be positve man and things are sure to work out well for you. I repeat dont run after a mirage. If she says she loves another, respect her for being frank and open rather than leading you on.

Answer 3

Actually, you can live without her. She may feel like the best in the world but tomorrow when you will find someone you may not even remember this one.

In any case you may give a try and express your feelings. Do not bother about the consequences. Be ready for a NO.

Advice: don't get emotionally attached to a person without knowing her and if she is not attached to you. In the end, she will live happily and you will suffer, better pick yourself.

Answer 4

You can't make someone love or want to be with you. Human beings just don't work that way. All you can do is make your feelings known and explain that if she wants to give it a try, she can let you know.

You won't like the truth but here it is... You can live without her, millions of people do it every single day. You may think you can't, it may hurt like hell, but you can live without her and she isn't the be all and end all of your existence. There are other women out there who could be far better, but you have to let go of what isn't going to happen and go look for one.

Another issue here is that if you find someone else...absence makes the heart grow fonder as they say. It may take you being with someone else to make her realise that she really wants and needs you in her life. It's worth a shot isn't it??

Answer 5

Honesty is one of the greatest of all moral virtues. From it springs forth many of the noblest of human qualities like integrity, There is the sense of humility and shame that we must feel before we lie. If we truly want to be honest in our relationship with people we must become so fully sincere to our friends that there remains in our hearts no other motive for what we do but to seek there friendship.
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If you have tried everything -- and I mean exploring every possibility, going the distance -- and your relationship still is not working, you need to end it, and so both of you can get on with your lives. Do not complicate matters by having an affair. All you are going to do is end up hurting a lot of people. That's what happens, reliably, every time, when people have extramarital affairs.

Answer 6

This is SINGLES and dating. Stay SINGLE. But if you musn't, the scientists say that pain is concentrated thought. That is why they have music on in the dentist's office. I was about to leave the dentist one time for the pain and they put the music on. Right then and there I knew I could take it as long as they could dish it out. That's radical. I was so proud of myself. Power over pain. Kind of heady. It seems it's emotional energy and if you think of something positive and really expect the energy to come to that positive place, it is dumb, it will do it. What a lessen that would be if you could pull that one off, well worth the pain. When you see her twenty years from now you will thank God you didn't marry her.
I was dreaming about a girl, even had a dream 25 years later. Called her 30 years later and oh, God. Even over the phone I wanted to end the call as soon as possible and I was going to go and see her. I remembered for so long because I was a hopeless romantic, trying to follow the scriptures on my first relationship, if you know what I mean. I actually believed in being faithful and I did, in my heart. If I hadn't believed that I don't think it would have stayed with me.
What is it they say, where your money is there is your heart also. That's if your head is on your money. You could say, where your head is that is where your heart is also. What you think about, that is where your heart goes. We all say I can't live without her. That is because we we think we can't imagine anything else. Actually you can. Imagine something else and something after that and so on and on. If you understand emotions by studying Emotional Intelligence you should get in control and not let others control, not even a woman. It is immature to be that dependant. I didn't grow up until 30 years in the above case. You can and should have more love for yourself and God than someone else. That's idolatry but no one tells us how things work.
Sorry to be so long, but that is a rather complex question as love is the main thing in a happy life and the least understood. Two emotionally mature people add to each others life, not destroy life. Emotional dependence is actually childish and an illness. It was wrong that your life had no meaning and you fell for the first thing you could believe in. Some therapists can help, nowadays. They even have pills for sex drive, you'd be surprised what an effect lowering the sex drive can have for "love" despite our protests of innocence. Sham, lie, self deception. Don't listen to love songs, they messed me up! Society is all about manipulating you. Run for the hills. You are just enjoying playing with fire, the fantasy that she'll change her mind and I can tell you that you had better hope she doesn't because she sounds messed up to me. I can intuit a lot from a little, call it what you will, somebody was already messed up to start with, probably los dos, ambos, comprende?
If you can't get her out of your mind, then you get out of your mind. They, the researchers, tell us that man, unlike animals, can imagine themselves outside themselves. I believe that is where we are supposed to live anyway, if they are right and we are human. Try it. That is a place where we are alot less emotional. Strong emotion is physical, mostly free energy. When you imagine yourself outside your head, see if the pain doesn't disappear. If it does, you learned something about yourself worth all the tea in China. Look down on yourself and you wont seem so important. Inside yourself you can't see the forest for the trees. You are not so self conscious in that part of your mind.
Self consciousness is being too into yourself, into your mind, into your feelings, where you probably where too much already, isn't that so? Those figures of speech aren't for nothing.
If you can't get something out of your mind then does that mean someone else controls your mind? You can't control your mind? When we are into ourselves the mind and body are controlled by the body, thoughts controlled by physical feelings. That's not taught us baybe because then we would be in control. Too many people want to control us, our parents, the schools, the advertisers, the governernment, churches, any manipulative person, TV stations, musicians, songwriters, women, men, movie studios, book and magazine writers, teachers and the devil, if you don't mind me saying. What chance do we have? Scientist say we lose control at age two or three. Take control and you will be way ahead of most people. You will be what they call, "a real man" and all the woman will jump you. Learn intuitive thinking and you will be able to make a wise choice of the cream of the crop or better yet be wise enough to be your own man and let them all take a hike. Oh yes, and many women are obsessed with controlling men, even when they don't want them. It's an ego thing.

Answer 7

hey this happens with everyone and trust you got to forget her. after all you can't force someone to fall in love with you.you either carry on with your life doing useful work or become devdas shouting out paro paro

Answer 8

first find out whether u reallly love or jst attraction n thn the answer is in front of u

Answer 9

see dude!!!its simple n str8 if they are serious and u poke da nose
u get da villian image and u are out...
if u serious then wait else walk cozzz life is to live n not suffr

Answer 10

just be a good friend, do whatever u can for her, have patience and one day this girl will realize that u are really the one. just always stay on her side

Answer 11

If you can just be her friend...accept it!Just don't show that you're still interested, otherwise she'll feel comfortable about it!Try to be her friend...but at the same time meet other people...be noticable...smile...laugh...be interesting...maybe she'll notice that YOU ARE!Good luck!