I`ve told him a few little lies.The first that i was single,when im actually married with 5 children.He is so gorgeous and only 23,im 45.Im also a little overweight,16stone and going slightly bald.Although i think that may be all this stress, and i`ve grown my armpit hairs to compensate.I sent him a picture of my neice and pretended that it was me and now he says he loves me.I told him i had won the local beauty contest 3 years in a row when it was actually the tiddley winks tournament.I just don`t know what to do.Should i confess and risk losing him?Or should i meet him?Afterall it`s what`s inside that counts.
2007-01-02 22:36:43 · 66 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMAO! Genius! Oh, I'm so glad I read this. I'm not really 23 and not really gorgeous. I'm 45 and bald. I'm also not married, but live with my balding slightly overweight wife. We have 3 children. Recently she's been growing her arm-pit hair. She's got a fit niece. In fact, thinking about it...
Oh dear, where DID we go wrong?! Come home and we'll discuss it over a meal
2007-01-02 22:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by PhoenixRights 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I'd remortgage the house and go for an extreme makeover! Get a tummy tuck a face lift and you might be able to get hair plugs and extensions! You're husband will be so pleased he won't notice that you remortgaged the house until you can't keep up the repayments and it's sold from under you. Just ask your lover if he wouldn't mind waiting a few weeks. This is so your scars have time to heal! Good luck! x
2007-01-02 23:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest the truth! mind you he's probably also been lying to you. if i was you i would email telling him the truth- enclose a picture of yourself- in your sexiest clothes- make yourself look really sexy! and apologise for lying again and again! wear your hair in a way that the baldness doesn't show- go to a professional hairdresser. as with the armpit hairs- use a razor or get them waxed. I suggest a full pampering actually yo make you feel more confident about yourself- maybe get a new outfit- in fact don't tell him you were lying! Have a spa day, get your hair cut, coloured and styled, get some new lingerie, and a little sexy black dress and some killer shoes- and make him fall in love with the REAL you. I agree whole heartedly that it is inside what counts- but in order for someone to see whats in the inside- they have to like whats on the outside- i no that can be a total ***** sometimes but that's the way of the world! i wish you all the luck for your date! please email me to let me no how it went! douthinkulookgood@hotmail.co.uk thanks
2007-01-02 22:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by sarah p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Odds are he is not being honest with you either. But if you meet him and he rejects you then you will feel worse. Be honest with him and as much as it may hurt if he does not want to meet you then at least your conscience is clear. Being with someone when there are all these lies between the two of you is not a relationship. You are married and need to think of how this will affect your marriage if your husband finds out. Think of your children and how it will affect them. If you are unhappy in your marriage then it is time you and your significant other sat down and talk about how the two of you are feeling. Is a one time affair worth losing your marriage over. What if you meet him and he rejects you and then your husband finds out you met someone. The whole thing will blow up in your face. Tell this guy the truth and cut off all ties with him. Talk to your significant other and work things out with him, it sounds like you are just going through a down time and need to work on your relationship with him and not out looking for someone else. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-02 22:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would not meet him. You have no ties to him you owe him nothing just dissapear and don't talk to him again. If you do meet him it will all end bad as he'll be expecting something completely different and may no longer be interested and you will have ruined your marriage and your kids lives for nothing. It may be whats inside that counts but you have to be attracted to someone to want to get past the exterior. DON'T DO IT!!!
P.S Don't forget he could have lied about things too he could turn out to be a right weirdo or a murderer
2007-01-02 22:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK here's what you should do. First tell him the truth, if you loose him it's ok you have a man already . Second you don't even know him that well he could be a rape-ist. you need to start telling the truth or your going to loose everything and fall to the bottom. If you don't do those things here's what would happen he see's you and realizes your not who you said you were and he finds an excuse to leave. You will be heart broken and your children and husband won't trust you anymore when they find out. DO IT FOR YOU!!!!! JUST DON"T DO IT AT ALL!!!!
2007-01-02 22:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Screwball, yes it should be the inside (heart ) that counts. Since you do not have one and have done nothing but lie and make up more lies, you need to do at least one honest thing in your whole life and tell the person the truth. You are the prime example of why the Internet and on line dating is so dangerous.
2007-01-02 22:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need some serious help girl. You already lost him. And the only thing inside of you is lies, lies and lies. (And maybe a few dozen big macs and curly fries as per your admitance of your weight problem) that withstanding, just tell your niece you found her a really great guy and send her to meet him. (Then again, he may have lied also and showed you a pic of his nephew and he could be fat and bald too with more arm-pit hair than a monkey on crack) in which case, a match made in a pig-pen. Best of luck.
2007-01-02 22:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, I wouldn't worry about that my dear. I told my internet boyfriend that I was an 18 year old, blonde playmate of the year, which is a slight exaggeration.
He wasn't disappointed at all when we met - it was just unfortunate that his grandmother's hamster had a heart attack and he had to rush off. If that hadn't happened we would have had a lovely evening, I'm sure xx
2007-01-02 23:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ask the question so be prepared for an answer you may not like.. You were tottally wrong in lying to him. If I were him I would probably be very angry and never speak to him again. It really hurts when someone betrays you and that is exactly what you have done. Reverse the situation and think about how you would feel if he told you all the things you have told him.I think you were very wrong.. Sorry
2007-01-02 22:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by jusbizness403 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋