i am in a gay relationship for just over a year. my partner and i broke up at around 10 months and got together again a month later. we broke up because he got a bit violent. we deciced to work it out and now are back together. i still feel that he gets a bit out of controll sometimes, but not too hectic.
If he beat me once, will it happen again??
and do gay relationships ever last, and why is there always so much jealosy??
2007-01-02 22:08:56 · 15 answers · asked by Saffa_Boy_83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he beat you once...there is definitely the potential for him to let loose on you again. I'm not sure what your definition of "a bit out of control is.." but that puts up warning signals with me as well.
Gay relationships do last. But, statistically, women have more relationships that last than men. It was explained as the 'nature of the beast.' Not that this is the way that all man/man relationships tend to be...it depends on the couple, their maturity, and their communication skills.
The amount of jealousy is dependent on the individual and their previous experiences...and whether they can get past past issues. They have to learn to trust again...and be willing to take the risk that is involved with trust. It sounds like he might have to seek counseling for this personal issue...but, by the sounds of it, I would personally be apprehensive about asking him...but, you shouldn't be afraid of asking--open and honest communication is a very important part of any relationship! I wish you the best of luck! Don't fear to be true to yourself, or to be alone for a while.
2007-01-02 22:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about that babs. violence its a crime and should not be tolerated and you might forgive that once but don't let it happen again.
Any relationship last if there's love in it.
now i don't know what's the big fuss about people not accepting same sex relationships I guess its about the cultural difference's the way they were brought up to believe in how life is... I'm straight and I have many friends that are either gay or lesbians... they're wonderful people and I wish them all the best in life and in love.
Best Wishes
2007-01-02 22:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will most probebly beat you again and say i am so sorry and i promise never to do it again, but sweety, he will.
Gay relationships do last i have to lesbian friends who are very happy....it just depends on how the other person treat you..and i agree with the little alien dude, in every relationship their is jeolousy, and being in a gay one, it is exactly the same as in the straight one...
2007-01-02 22:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to take heed to approximately that babs. violence its against the regulation and should no longer be tolerated and you will forgive that when yet do no longer enable it take place returned. Any courting final if there is love in it. now i do no longer understand what's the huge fuss approximately human beings no longer accepting comparable intercourse relationships i assume its with regard to the cultural distinction's the way they have been stated to have self assurance in how life is... i'm right this moment and that i've got many friends that are the two gay or lesbians... they are staggering human beings and that i wish them each and every of the suited in life and in love. suited needs
2016-10-29 21:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not gay obviously, but i want to help you out. if he hits you once, he'll always do it again! he may cry and say he won't and he may not for a while, but he will always go back to that, never doubt it!! as far as the relationship lasting, i know a gay couple who have been together for over 20 years and are very happy together.
2007-01-02 22:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, have my deepest sympathy for having fallen prey to this cruel and unfortunate "disease" called homosexuality. Whatever its cause, I sincerely wish that a cure for it will be found in the near future, so that hapless people like you will get to know what true love is: that is love between a man and a woman. Without that love, you are really missing out on one of the most beautiful things this world has to offer. I'll continue to pray for all those with this terrible affliction.
2007-01-02 22:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Paleologus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he beats you again. Go buy some safety pins and while he's asleep pin down the sheets around him tight where he can't move and beat the hell out of him to show him what it feels like to be beaten.
2007-01-02 22:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll beat you again. There's no more jealousy in a gay relationship than in a straight one.
2007-01-02 22:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics show that people who have become violent with their partners will do so again and it will gradually get worse and worse unless that person gets help. Please urge him to get into anger management glasses and counseling before you wind up in the hospital or worse dead.
2007-01-02 22:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by blueflash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you deserve better.
just say to yourself, it was good while it lasted.
because when people are in violent relationships they practically live off the hope that one day it will stop, that it was just a one time thing, or that he was angry that day.
i think you should stop now while its early.
2007-01-02 22:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lor. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋