My father went to UK 14 years before,time to time,he has got all the family members (brother and mom)with him settled in UK. My sis is with me but her appeal has been accepted and she has a hope to join the family in UK.I am the eldest son.For family settlement there is no way for me to join my family. I am losing hope.I've waited for 10 years. Now I am begining to lose hope. I started smoking,first occassionally and now regular. I am tired of waiting. There is NO Way visible for me. I am single, cannot get married cause of financial problems. I am afraid of going further with bad habbits. I know it is really "bad" but I really find nothing else to unleash my anger on. I've NO HOPE that I would ever make it with my family.I don't want to lose myself but the situations are really tearing me apart!!!
Can anyone of u pals help me overcome this mental and physical torture? I really would be highly obliged.
2007-01-02
21:47:55
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I live in Pakistan. For family settlement the dependant on his father (son) should be under 18. I am 26. My father got the british nationality in 2005. He applied for family settlement, but since I am male, single and above 18 the UK ppl refused. We apealed but the lawyers say there is NO Chance.
2007-01-02
22:01:02 ·
update #1
Ellie! I live in Pakistan. For family settlement the dependant on his father (son) should be under 18. I am 26. My father got the british nationality in 2005. He applied for family settlement, but since I am male, single and above 18 the UK ppl refused. We apealed but the lawyers say there is NO Chance and this is a fact. I lived in dreams all my childhood and now all the dreams looks like fading away in vain... :(
2007-01-02
22:02:42 ·
update #2