Ok so I'm not feeling good this week and so she came over today and just layed in bed with me. And when i started to fall asleep she got up and started putting her stuff on and I asked her why shes going and she said " theres nothing here for me talk to you later bye" So I didn't say anything and just let her go. What is her deal?
2007-01-02 21:46:26 · 17 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she obviously cares or else she wouldn't bother coming over. If you were falling asleep what did you expect her to do? stay and watch? I don't think there's a problem, don't worry about it.
2007-01-02 21:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were unresponsive, so she felt she could do nothing, so she left.
If she wasn't going to stay over anyway, and you are falling asleep, she takes that as a hint that you want her to leave.
She said "talk to you later". I think she was a bit p*ssed at you for not talking to her and just laying there. Sounds like she wanted you to talk to her about why you haven't been feeling so good. Girls like to help people out. Tell them what's bothering you so they can feel like they are actually part of your life.
You don't have to apologise, but you have to tell her why you feel like crud, and TALK TO HER. Or she will get the sh*ts and dump you for someone who will talk to her.
Do you really want her to watch you sleeping? Stalkers and psychopaths like to do that. The type that sits on the end of your bed for the entire night just to watch you. Do you want that type of girl?
2007-01-03 06:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she feels like she`s missing out on something somewhere. Don`t let time go by with her feeling that void. Its weird how this works. If she has a headache your without. If you have a headache and she wants it, you could be without for a week or more. Hope your not too late.
2007-01-03 05:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been like her before.. i think she's just expecting a little more than just laying on the bed..maybe some cuddling, hugging... or some touching...u dont need to say anything..you jus need to have the intimate contact to make her feel welcome to the place and that u care for her presence..
2007-01-03 05:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems as though she's eager to see some one else or she's just not that into you.
Also you were sleeping and maybe she didn't feel like laying around, sh*t happens.
2007-01-03 05:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's your gf's DEAL??
maybe she wanted to let you rest. Maybe she's not interested in watching you sleep. There's NOTHING wrong with those 2 OPTIONS ya know....
don't take it personal SH!T!
2007-01-03 05:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were falling asleep and she had nothing to talk about.....big deal.....sounds like your the one with a problem....
2007-01-03 05:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl just needed some action & when you couldn't giv it to her she decided to go get it somewhere else...
2007-01-03 05:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Themby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has pms, or she really wanted to talk to you but you fell asleep.
2007-01-03 05:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have hair like that I dont blame the poor girl
2007-01-03 05:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋